1) I've received 3-4 views per visit and messages excluding spam bots about twice a week with a blank profile. Adding a profile I expect will increase this. Meaning you'll have to work to stand out, so try figure out what about you lights my interests.


2) The transgender identity here is woefully inadequate covering seemingly everything from drag queens to transmen. I am a transexual woman. It is nothing like T-girl porn. It's not a check mark for your fetish bucket list, and it's certainly not a fetish for me, more of a persistent inconvenience. Ideal candidates will consistently accept my womanhood, offer constructive feed back, and avoid stupid shit that lights up my gender dysphoria. I am pre or non-op (haven't decided) pre-ho. I am not out at work and often present as male. It's my life my transition, it happens on my terms for me.


3) I'm an inexperience domme. If you're looking for someone who'll be "on" all the time you're probably better off hiring a professional.


4) I don't suffer fools, or waste my limited time on idiots. I am apparently a genius, a useless title that doesn't help with much of anything. Intelligence is a turn on airs of intelligence is a turn off. Reading Dickens, doesn't mean your smart it means you've got patience, personally I enjoy my geekery mostly Sci-Fi and Fantasy.


5) I'm a Democrat. Being ignorant is unfortunate, but I can fix ignorance. Don't know a Dahomean spirit from a Yarouba spirit. That's esoteric, totally understandable you can learn new things if you want. Willful ignorance is a deal breaker. Ditto bigotry and similar bullshit. I didn't list Republicanism, because broken as that party is from it's roots I recognize there are some core values in Republicanism, and not every Republican lights crosses on fire/


6) I'm happily married. I'm polyamorous. I am not looking for a threesome. Submitting to me doesn't mean you're anything to my wife. My wife will be informed if things become more serious than chatting online. I trust my wife and my cats opinions, you want them to like you and feel they can trust you.


7) My turn ons are geekery (passionate interest in topics), novelty, understanding, wit, charm, compassion, and looks in that order.


8) My domme kink interests include, improving my rope skills, letting out some primal intensity on someone who can take it. I want a toy I can play rough with, and still enjoy conversation with.

9) The word lights appears five times in the profile.

10) I'm actually allergic to roses, they hold power in my eyes because I see them as poisonous deadly and powerful.

11) No I think 10 will suffice.