**Original Profile ** Well for as long as I can remember I have been attracted to older, Dom, stable people who want to take care of me and pudgy lol. I never dated much because nobody was appealing or it wasn't legal lol,  this also caused me to have no experience with BDSM. This was a problem because I crave the warmth of affection, validation (and love maybe...idk yet)and I want to reciprocate all feelings and ensure my partners satisfaction. I'm naturally a people pleaser and extremely sub so that is very important to me. Your pleasure is mine but sometimes I don't want to do as I'm told and need to be punished. I'm mostly sweet, but sometimes sour lol. In a nut shell, I want what I feel like I've been lacking. Even if only for a moment, I want it to be the best moment. I'm looking for someone who will lead me into this lifestyle, spoil, and take care of me. So are you up for the challenge...will you let me make you happy? Also I was blessed with boobs not an ass lol.

**Update** (20 something days later and I've learned so much lol) (I moved this from my profile) Hi, I'm a different kind of Dom mostly because I'm actually sub. You're probably like ummmm... I know let me explain. For me being sub is about pleasing your partner and maybe getting something out of it. I think it comes from my desperate need for validation but I'm getting off track lol. That means no matter what you need me to be, I can be or will try and all but die if I fail lol. I don't take disappointment well. For me it's​ about that release of satisfaction( sometimes a look, sometimes cum, sometimes just a slight shift in energy). I've found that subs have the most beautiful, core altering release. It's truly beautiful. Plus I've yet to find a Dom who will green light pegging lol. I'm into part time BDSM, I find it extends a relationships shelf life. Need me to further explain message me. You have nothing to lose except for the time it took you  to read this lol. Gosh I hope this makes sense...