12/14/2023 10:29:48 AM: In this day and age everyone has a camera. I do not expect a picture immediately but if we talk for days and you cannot share at least one picture of yourself, it is a huge red flag to me. I understand caution, discretion, and being safe, but after days of being closely connected, learning much about each other, enough simple trust should be built to at least share a picture.

11/13/2022 12:11:32 PM: If you don't build a relationship that is authentically you, you'll eventually allow yourself to burn it to the ground. How many relationships have crumbled because one or both people in them weren't actually committed? Start with YOU. Not the image of what you think you want, or the image of what you think others want in you. But the reality of who you are. As you begin to fully understand who you are, what your true needs, desires and limits are, that you'll be closer to knowing what you need to build on and you can have the trust that it will remain. You'll have the tenacity to stick with it, and the passion to grow it. If you'll do YOU. Then, you can do anything you want. I'd be more than happy to help you along the way!

12/28/2021 7:56:46 PM: Sex without Orgasm. When we focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal, reaching a truly orgasmic state rarely happens. That highly aroused, super horny, primal state where the sexual energy is exploding inside you. That state disappears quickly once we experienced the release of orgasm. Don’t get rid of that sexual energy. Use it, let it build and then just like edging during masturbation, back off and stay on the mountain top of pleasure. Choose not to cum. When you orgasm it is your body’s way of involuntary get rid of built up sexual tension. Stay with the sexual bliss, feel it, use the sexual energy, choose to control it as long as possible.  Once you have experienced the endless waves of ecstasy and a more intimate, deeper connection to yourself, your body, and your partner, orgasm and ejaculation will no longer be the most important part of sex or the end goal. Pleasure can go on for hours. That amazing blissful feeling can stay with you even after sex and you can use that energy to become more present and powerful in every area of your life.

12/26/2021 10:54:14 AM: She’s caught between who she is and who she needs to be,,,

11/2/2021 2:50:50 PM: Back after trying to edit my profile, an entire year wasted. Still searching so come say hi.