Collarspace

I had a CS profile once before but took it down because I was so overwhelmed with the number of responses I got. This time I decided to be more specific about what I am interested in. I am a big, beautiful, confident woman. If you have no interest in a BBW I am not the woman for you. I am fairly new to the lifestyle, a little over a year now, but have enjoyed the experiences I have had, have discovered some of what I like and don't like and know that I am ready for the right submissive to be a part of my life. I have always been a naturally dominant person, at work, in relationships, even in friendships I tend to be more of a leader then a follower. I enjoy being Domme and most of the typical things that are involved In a female led relationship but I don't have a very sadistic nature. I do enjoy bondage (although I have limited experience), spanking, and whipping. I'm also not a fan of humiliation, it just doesn't come natural to me. I'm more of a nurturing, caring person but I know how to make a man my bitch and the words to whisper in his ear to get inside that subby head of his. I am definitely turned on by intelligence and a great sense of humor. I appreciate a man who has an opinion, will voice and even defend his opinion but respects my authority and knows that I have final say. I have no use for a tool.... I have to have something to do when I untie him, right?!! I am a writer of both poems and short stories and like to share my erotic stories. I am seeking a real long term female led relationship. The right submissive man will live in Texas or be willing to travel and relocate. I'm a tried and true Texas gal and will never move. If you will not or cannot travel and relocate by your own means then please don't waste our time. He must be at least 35. Thus isn't a hard and fast rule but preferable. He must be discreet and understand that the dynamics of the relationship would appear like any other vanilla one to the outside world. He must be willing to serve his Mistress both domestically and sexually. If this is you please contact me and tell me about yourself.