I am a married man in a vanilla marriage and do not (for a variety of reasons) plan to change that. That being said, I miss the kink lifestyle that I used to actively pursue, particularly serving a woman. I enjoy light pain and humiliation, absolutely love pegging and being directed as well as spanking and some impact play. I'm a clean cut professional and run often so have strong legs and an ass perfect for your strap on or vibe. My switch personality stems from the enjoyment I get in giving a woman an otk spanking and playing with her as I do so. In the past I've been with several women with whom I've done this and have had a lot of fun doing so.