Single working professional, divorced for a few years. My ex was fairly dominant and I have found it difficult, down south, to find dominant woman. Tried the standard dating sites and found many nice women. But could not find any that would initiate and top. I am the kind of guy who friends expect to see me with a soccer mom. Southern  women just fall back into their roles of southern belles.  I get the same answer from them "I will do what you want to do." Believe me, I do speak up when I want something.

Been trying to find a casual friend. A few years ago, I tried the alt lifestyle dating sites, what a waste of time. Maybe you or you have a friend that doesnt want to jump all the way into this lifestyle, but would still enjoy her fun. Maybe you are like me, on the edge and want your own freedom? I would totally enjoy getting a little more familiar with each other, first via email, to maintain our privacy and then trust.

Not sure of this site, but thought I would try. I am not looking to be someones slave. Would like to spend some time talking, listening, relaxing, and then go on our way. I understand how collarspace works, just looking for advice. take care. Thank you.