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Hello, Everyone.

Since my teen years I developed an interest in bdsm. At first I thought I was weird but thanks to the interwebs I learned I was not alone! But it was not until my late twenties that I realized why I have an interest. I love the Idea of social diviency (well lots of deviancys) why walk a straight path lets make life interesting. However, It has taken me a while to get to a point where I am comfortable emotionally, to put my self outside my comfort zone. I hope that makes sense.

I love that bdsm takes a lot of communication. Its hard to navagate and say what our wants and needs are at times but here you need to be clear. As I learned the other night you cant say well ill try almost everything.... Being specific is important. But in reality all good relationships need a huge amount of communication.

I love human interaction, and getting to know people. Not just kinks but life.

Vanilla world... I am an experiential educator. I teach through experience and reflection. Leadership development, challenge course facilitation and so on. I belive that play is a key to creating meaningful experiences and wit that Im filled with tons of silly and fun games. Rock climbing is my sport, and I hate heights but love building the trust between me and my climbing partners. And also....I mean I get to play with rope all the time woooot! Love food and good beer.

Areas Id like to explore Ds relationships DDlg Rope play Age play, Regression Impact play

well theres the list below too so I wont put everything here. But also Building confidence in myself and not letting my anxiety get in the way...

Just moved to the bay area and looking to branch out and meet new people!