Note: just seeking friends at the moment, as I am in a relationship. I am not changing the rest of my blurb, as we are open poly, subject to His approval, and while I don't anticipate seeing anyone else, I always like new friends.
I am basically straight, a submissive, intelligent, educated, professional. I live in a rural area and don't mind some travel, or on line, but I won't do on line only. I have had enough experience to notice a lot of D types seem to think it is all about them, but that is not for me. I need a relationship, not to be used and have my needs ignored. I would like to find a long-term relationship with someone who is well-adjusted, self-aware, spiritual, fun and with compatible interests. So if you aren't looking for that, please do not waste either of our time... Unless you truly just want friendships. I can always use friends.
Also, no haters. Basically, no judgmental, super conservative types, because, truthfully, I find that sort of mindset a complete turn off. Some of my best friends are LGBT or minorities. I am extremely liberal, opinionated, independent, and smart. I am definitely all sub, though. I like a bit of pain, a bit of objectification/humiliation, and a bit of a daddy. I might be a bit of a brat, but I am well mannered in public. Honesty is a must, and so is kindness. I will not lie intentionally, and I expect the same (although we all lie to ourselves better than anyone else, IMO.) And despite my strong political and social opinions, I loathe talking politics and hate "news" shows. I also love Firefly, Star Trek, and Star Wars, although my inner geek is sadly out of date. I think Deadpool is my favorite movie ever. I write sf, and have too many arty/crafty skills to mention, and I might own more tools than you do. Lol.
And that long-winded rant pretty much sums me up. However, due to some objectionable messages, now I'm adding something about Doms. Just because I am a sub does not entitle you to expect anything from me because you are a dom. If you think otherwise, you do not know how it works, and you have no respect for potential subs. We are not going to hook up for play. We are not going to chat immediately. We will exchange a few emails here, and figure out if interests and logistics make us worth further discussion. We will get to know each other before any bdsm. I'm not going to make an exception for you because you did not read my profile. You can call me bitchy, but I've had it with the rudeness here. Manners and respect are what this lifestyle requires.
