My goal to find one genuine dominant woman for an eventual loving, long term and committed female lead relationship (FLR) that is a healthy mix of everyday life and BDSM however, there is always room for friends, and one must walk before running.



I am a single, childless, 42 year old alpha submissive who is university educated, independent, gainfully employed with a stable career and finances, and my life is in order. I am intelligent, and I highly value honesty and transparent communication.



I enjoy quiet time at home with music or a good book, but I also like to get out and enjoy life. I love the outdoors, so I enjoy road trips, hiking and pretty much anything associated with the water. I also enjoy cooking and hosting friendsfamily in my home, as well as an evening out with my special lady.



What I ultimately seek will take time to develop and it will be based on trust, communication, mutual respect and love. My submissive nature is genuine however, I dont just submit to anyone who calls herself Dominant. There needs to be chemistry - absolute and undeniable chemistry! Therefore, I dont role play with strangers, nor am I interested in rushing andor forcing a relationship for the sake of a being in a one.



I seek substance. I seek friendship first. If youre on the same page, please do get in touch and lets explore the possibilities.