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RavenMuse
Hetero Male Dominant, 48, London, United Kingdom 
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RavenMuse

If you are looking to discuss something or have a question, then polite e-mails that show effort will almost always be replied to when I get time to do so.

 

One liners and obvious trolls will simply be deleted!

 

And don't just send Me Friendcircle invites out of the blue. Yes I have quite a few listed here, most are people I know in real life and the few others I have spoken to at length for a year or two. If neither of those applies then the answer is NO!

 

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If I see something that interests Me in the way of potential addition to this household or as a playpartner then I will soon let you know. If you see something here that appeals feel free to draw My attention to the fact that there is something I may wish to consider.

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The best way to get a feel for who I am, other than meeting Me in real life at one of the Scene events around London (Such as the Croydon Munch or London Alternative Market, both of which I am a regular at) would be to read My forum posts here or elsewhere. You get a range of Me there. My thoughts on D/s, warped sense of humour, even how I am when butting heads with someone in a disagreement. For good or bad its all there. WYSIWYG.

I am a human being, I have flaws, I am not UberDom the superhero or a life support machine for a flogger. Don't build some 'image' of Me that you expect Me to live upto, if you choose to submit to Me you are submitting to the whole package, the person, the human being. Dominant certainly, but every bit HUMAN!

But to capsulate it in a 'personal ad'?

First off: Dominant, straight, I don't switch

"When you trust enough in Me, in My approach and in My duty of care, THEN you submit. Once you submit, you are Mine in mind, body and soul. If you ever loose that trust, the one and only choise that remains entirely yours is to walk away.... but it is a one way door"

I am a lifestyler, I don't play at this. Dominant isn't a hat I put on at 'playtime', it is who I am, how I am wired. I tend towards the TPE end of things, more suited to owning a slave than simply being 'Dom' to a sub. The D/s dynamic and the 'relationship' is the important bit. BDSM 'play' is an often enjoyed extra, but not 'what I am about', it is just the iceing on the cake. Likewise whilst I have somewhat an overactive libido, it isn't 'about' the sex either though in any relationship you can definatly expect there WILL be plenty of that.

I find the dynamic works better in general with an older Dom/younger sub so that is where I normally look. I generaly don't look too closely at anyone older than about 3 or 4 years below My own age. If you think you maybe an exception, that you have something to offer that I will be interested in... Fine, you may have to work that much harder to convince Me but I am not totaly closed off to the idea. I simply concentrate My efforts where I KNOW the greatest chance of finding what I seek is.

Likewise I am mainly looking for that elusive long term committed relationship, but I am not adverse to meeting for play and if someone is particularly appealing maybe more than play, but again it isn't where I am focusing My attention. If that is what you are looking for, don't expect Me to be approaching you, you will have to make sure you let ME know the option is there to be considered. I have a particular fondness for flogging a good looking girl, so I will always be easiest to persuaide for that.

I am NOT looking for a doormat. I am looking to collar a person. A girl who has thoughts, needs, wants and opinions of her own. Submission doesn't mean loosing those things, but choosing to give control to another.

Expressing those thoughts and opinions in an appropriate manner, communicating those needs and wants clearly so I have all the relevant information to base My decision on. Accepting, submitting to those decisions even when they are not what she would have decided for herself.

Honesty is paramount. Lies WILL result in dismissal. I expect truth from the start. You can't trust a liar and without trust there is no relationship worth having, D/s or otherwise. I am bluntly, some would say 'Brutally' honest. I expect the same from any girl looking to be collared by Me.

I am NOT looking for someone to move straight in with Me. Whilst I take on responsibility for a girl 24/7, I am not currently looking to share My living space on a permanent basis. If that comes it will be a result of a long term relationship where trust and training has been worked on for months or even years. As such I am particularly seeking in the London area/SE UK.

If you are going to write to Me, please, no one liners, they are not well received. If you are not willing to put in at least some effort to make a first impression then you are unlikely to put in effort in a relationship. Give Me some idea of who you are, what you are looking for and why you think we may have areas of compatibility.

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!

5/18/2014 2:31:36 PM: Found Myself a lovely little playpartner (On another site) My slave gets on with her rather well so thats good. But of course, as a result I'm not currently seeking ANYTHING else whilst that settles down. Then once I see how much time and energy I have left I can better judge what I have to offer and what I might choose to add further to this household.   Meanwhile My slave has also asked for and got permission to seek a playpartner of her own to indulge her Toppy side.... From what is catching her interests, that looks likely to be female (And no, that doesn't mean I'll be looking to be involved.... I am rather fucking particular about chemistry... if it ain't there, I don't care what they look like, I ain't interested!) 3/31/2014 5:31:24 PM: Sheesh around two years since I've done much on this site, but then year on year I've watched it get worse and worse. Mainly use another site now (FL). But I'll likely pop back here every so often so I may as well update it.   The young lady mentioned in the last update, two years ago still belongs to Me and has rather blossomed under My Ownership. It took time for her to fully grasp the depth of a proper M/s dynamic and also to build trust and comfort in Poly, but We got there eventually.   Currently looking for a playpartner again and, if the right chemistry is found open to adding a second slave to the household. Though I'm in no rush for either, I'd rather do without than waste My time with someone who simply isn't upto scratch. I don't appologise for having high standards, it takes more than simply having a cunt between your legs to be of interest to Me! 6/29/2012 5:50:12 PM: Well last weekend was certainly eventful and most satisfying. My new girl came for her first weekend with her new Master (I formaly recieved her total submission early on Friday evening). she was very brave considering the quarter centuary age difference between us.   I could hardly ask for a more delightful, enthusiastic, loving and obedient slave. I think she had more than a few surprises too. Even something that hithertoo had been a hard limit (Which when raised as a potential issue she immediatly reclassified as something she was willing to try 'for Me') is now a firm favorate (A big difference between someone incompetent trying to do something and putting her off it and someone taking the time and care to ensure she was introduced to it correctly.... plus of course she has an actual Dynamic working for her on such issues now).... she was rather inordinatly proud of herself having managed it. she was also rather proud of the bruises she found after We had been playing (She'd been claiming she NEVER bruised LOL)   Although she had to return to Southampton on the Monday, We have been in contact most of the time on most days so far. She is very much looking forward to getting back where she belongs on the 7th..... Not just to be back in My arms, but also I am taking her out on the london scene that evening. Her first major club and the first time I shall be playing with her in public.   From there We have (Barring a couple of days) a whole week together which will Be most benificial to both of Us (And another smaller event to attend on the 14th)   As I indicate on the profile. I am not currently seeking a second slave, I will start that search once I am satisfied this one is settled. For for now it is only playpartners I will be seeking.... especialy interested in those seeking higher levels of pain and/or objectification. 6/15/2012 8:21:07 PM: Remind Me not to change My aftershave, something is working thats for sure LOL I seem to have found the most delightful young slave.... Certainly real (Active on the scene in her area... We know some people in common) and hopefully meeting up soon.   she certainly ticks a large number of boxes, very cute, bright, good communicator, maso, slave.... and also a need for D/lg which she appeared to think was a barrier whilst in fact is a big bonus :)   BOGOF..... take on one slave/maso/fucktoy and get a free daughter LOL   I'm really hoping this young lady goes the distance, she certainly seems to be VERY special and has the potential to make Me proud to own her. 6/8/2012 1:17:12 PM: Good grief I did remember the password it has been so long since I've been on here I did wonder *g* I tend to use these days, Whilst I have found some amazing girls through here in the past, these recent years I've hardly spotted anyone actualy interesting on here any more, I am sure they are out there, just buried under all the idiots, trolls and people who would struggle to find the word 'Dynamic' in a dictionary!   But yes... currently back single. Last girl I had long term parted on very good terms (Still damn good friends).   The only search I've actualy given up on is 'submissive'.... It would only frustrate Me, I need someone seeking M/s, nothing less will really do. it takes a slave... it takes MY slave to press all the right buttons in Me and let Me feel actauly fulfilled in a relationship.   I am open to playpartners, but they are not as important to Me (If you can't accept that, click next profile now and don't waste My time). Such are scratching a few itches and having a few laughs (Even though time together will be a lot more CNC than most such offers you are going to get... if you don't know the term or what it means then likely I'm not the playpartner for you!)... just any authority/control lasts only from when you arive till when you leave, the rest of your life is your own and is of little interest to Me.   Only a slave will get that 24/7 commitment and responcibility from Me.
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