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Dom/Slave Couple, 74/45,  FortMyers, Florida
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SWForidaDom

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Updating profile Sept 2020.

Corrections made on age and thanks to the pandemic, weight. We are a male dominant, female slave couple seeking to expand into a small tight knit bdsm poly family. We have a lot of experience and skills in all areas of bdsm and in specific the Master slave dynamic, were highly flexible in the areas that we consider inconsequential like age, race, ethnicity, experience, body type, gender, sexual orientation etc. BUT we are also highly selective on issues we see as critical to successful long term Ms relationships, that includes integrity, honesty, ethical behavior, good c0mmunications skills and of course the ability to c0mmit totally with nothing held back, its that 100 percent c0mmitment that is especially important to us. Did we mention honesty... both with yourself and us.

We are seeking the right people to join us not the quickest or easiest. We should share that we are liberal and open minded so hard core Trump fans probably wouldnt be happy here. We would love to find the right couple of any mix, Master has had co-Doms in the past and enjoyed how that worked, we feel a need for ongoing stability in the family so having a younger dominant to mentor would provide that. However a slave slave couple would also be ideal if they fit into the family well. Larger groups or existent poly families are yet another possibility. Singles are also welcome, the criteria is being a good person and as flexible as we are.

In return for a complete and total c0mmitment we offer a place in a family with no drama, jealousy or manipulation that is made up of caring, supportive and all around ... good people... We dont set up anyone to fail, assuming you or any slave is giving everything they have and everything they can to this family that will be just enough, no matter the outcome on any given task or assignment. All we ask for is everything but the good news is that will always be enough.

Please respond with full emails, no one liners, no text message abbreviations and no requests to jump to other venues right away. Since you already know we ask for everything youll recognize that we will want to know everything about you as well... so longer messages with honest details that tell us a lot about you will be better accepted on this end.....

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 SWForidaDom

 Dom/Slave

 FortMyers 

 Florida

 10/16/15

 

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 Male

 Pan

 Dominant

 6' 0"

 220 lbs

 74

 Caucasian

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 Female

 Pan

 Slave

 5' 5"

 45

 Caucasian

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

Male Dom Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Anal Play

 FLR Journal

 Massage

 Whips

 Liberal Politics

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Polyamory

 Loves:

 Body Worship

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops

 Chastity

 Chastity Piercing

 Collars

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service

 Fire Play

 Humiliation

 Modern Primitivism

 Oral Service

 Spanking

 Wax Play

 Body Art

 Buddhism

 Likes:

 Genital Punishment

 Medical fetish play

 Munches

 Clothing Selection

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Shibari

 Suspension Bondage

 Gardening

 Meditation

 Tattoos

 Archaeology

 History

 Philosophy

 Political Activism

 Psychology

 Writing

 Keto

 Old Guard

 Pampering

 Swinging

 Agnosticism

 Atheism

 Hates:

 Libertarian Politics

 Hard Limits:

 Conservative Politics

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11/30/2022 6:01:36 PM

Please Read this first. 


A few things to add to all this. First I haven't updated the profile itself because that runs the risk of falling into a black hole and never getting approved, hopefully the journal updates are still being approved. Secondly about sex;  for me BDSM isn't foreplay for vanilla sex, sex is about service and kink and therefore just another form of service. I am not a kind and generous lover, rather I am strict and demanding, I expect and get obedience and service. Third when I talk about poly it doesn't mean open relationships, swinging or even that the Master does who and what he wants, we are loyal and faithful to each other and everyone in the family has a voice in who we add and IF anyone has sex or even hard core SM outside the family. We've never had an STD and intend to stay that way.  Fourth, who we are seeking, we are truly flexible about your gender, orientation, etc. Trans slaves would be fine, a couple of subs or slaves would be fine, straight slaves or gay slaves would be fine. A dominant with their slave would be great if the dom can work with me as a co-dom. I've done that successfully in the past and enjoyed it a lot I make a reasonable mentor and the family has need for ongoing continuity long term, despite my wishes and popular belief I won't live forever. I care about the honesty, integrity, being open minded and anti-bigotry of any  kind, ability to care and share and c0mmitment to living focused on bdsm a lot but gender, age, orientation, body type, ethnicity etc are not critical and of minor import.  Lastly I am probably not going to write to you because being old, hard core and demanding I know most people here won't have an interest. I hate the idea of being a stalker or creepy old man so if you have an interest please go ahead and send me a message here.  

One of the advantages of being in a poly family is no one has to be everything, just being yourself is enough. Some of the things I like in no particular order are creative and artistic people, adventerous people,  open liberal and honest people, quirky, counter culture attitudes,  smart people, caring people, original thinkers and people who love others, care for others and enjoy life.


We are looking to form a closed, small, tight knit bdsm poly family. Poly is complicated and honestly probably different for each family. So here's some ideas about what we are seeking. First is total honesty and open communications. I'll believe what you tell me right up until I find out I've been misled or maqnipulated. I do that by choice because in the past I have been told some outlandish and hard to believe things and rejected them only to find out later they were true, at least as far the person telling me could know. Real life if full of amazing stories and I like amazing smart and fun people so now I expect to hear some amazing shit. As inferred abpve. I value integrity above the things many dominants seek, like body type, age, religion, hair color expereince and more things I see as trivial in comparison to the traits and attitudes that are critical to forming successful Master slave bonds.

We are wanting a diverse family. We are already from different generations and hoping to add more diversity in age, experience, etc. Race, ethnic background etc would never be a deal breaker. I've owned live in slaves most of my adult life from most genders and we are open to hearing who you are and how you see yourself. If you're younger then it's unlikely that you have a lot of skills or financial resources but should have lots of energy and dedication to give. I love owning a slave who is uninhibited and idealistic in their approach to serving and living their slavery.  If you are older than it's unlikely you still have that energy of youth and idealism fades with contact and experiences with Dominants with questionable skills. But I do expect that anyone smart and dedicated to living their bdsm has prepared their life to be of value to their next owner.  A truly older slave might fill a position of a 'sugar slave' and be a welcome member of the family.  I don't set up people to fail and don't want to have expectations beyond what you're ready for but at the same time I am strict and demanding and will demand a true one hundred percent effort all the time. In fact that's what I want, everything. The good news is that will be just enough to satisfy me no matter what that turns out to be. 

If you read this and are thinking that this guy seems to know what he's doing as a Master and if you have any thought that you might fit into a group like we are forming feel free to write and let me kinow, I don't bite. Well, actually I do but even so write because I no longer write to many folks cold. The combination of my age and extreme nature of the bdsm I feel I need in my life and the family will need in it's means most of the folks here don't have much interest in me and therefore us. 

For the record, I'm in pretty good health and expect to have another 10 or 15 years of active bdsm left in me. I'm a Vietnam vet, a retired Fireman from a major city and have a multitude of experiences owning companies and working in electronics and sales.  I'm sexually active and in the past have worn out slaves physically and emotionally. I'm not a Diva but am high maintenance in the sense of needing a lot of service from slaves. I am demanding sexually so understand that the bdsm and SM is not foreplay for vanilla sex, Sex here is mainly oral and anal with serving the Master the goal.


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