Im here to create a monogamous long term Ds relationship. Given the realities of everyday life I dont get to meet enough kinky people to find a suitable mate.



My Ideal Person
In a sense people are like onions, they wrap themselves in layers to protect against the world so you when you peel away a surface layer theres another right below it. One must have patience and persistence to get to the core. In a sub I like to see the fear and the innocence that lies at the center. People really are just simple creatures for all their conceits of complexity, its merely an illusion caused by confusion of competing desires. In truth there are only two feelings, the need which compels us to seek what we desire, safety, security and a sense of belonging and fear which keeps us from achieving what we desire most. Sometimes both at the same time, the old approach avoidance trap where neither takes precedence and leaves you paralyzed.An authentic person, someone who is consistent in word and deed, someone who can let go of fear and embrace their desires.