My profile needs an update but that will lock it for a while so I am updating here. 

I am in the process of combining my household with that of a long time dominant male friend. He is one of the most amazing men I've ever met and our lives have finally aligned time wise for us to be together.

I'm currently in North Carolina hanging out with him and planning things and will move my household from Washington at a later date. Due to a job relocation, we will end up in Orlando area hopefully before the end of the year. It doesn’t make sense to move my household until we land and unpack in Orlando.

The Master and I seek a female for a relationship with at least him but perhaps me as well. I already have a celibate male slave and it’s time to get a bit more estrogen in the household. Even if the female is hetero, we can still be great friends.

He and I each have over 20 plus years of real time experience in this lifestyle. We have been involved with leather communities and a variety of lifestyle communities including Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle, Wichita, Dallas, Chicago, Charlotte, and Florida as well as teaching opportunities. We are far from the typical unexperienced dominants usually found on this site beating their chests, shouting how “dominate” they are. We are both sensual though I have a cruel side at times, when it fits the situation.

The Master loves helping others learn, explore, and have opportunities for growth. He enjoys using, mentoring, and spoiling. He is great with impact and edge play, orgasm control, sensation scenes, and bondage.

We both have a strong belief that those who serve should be doing so from a place of desire and excitement, not fear. Respect of everyone by everyone is important so extreme slave treatment isn’t generally something either of us are into.

Please note: This household is focused on service. Service to human kind. Not specifically sexual service, but service in general. Being a part of this family means activities like gathering toys for children in need during the winter holidays, helping older neighbors, finding free items to take to refugees, and the like. Look at the name on my profile. Make A Difference. Coming into this household means making a substantial difference in the lives of many others. It means setting your entitled attitude aside and finding the gratitude in each day and experience. 

Yes, kink happens here too. I have a play room that I have designed myself. It is used when there is time, but using it is not the primary purpose of the household. I plan to have house parties again in the fall so that will be an opportunity to meet others who have kink in their lives and potentially have some play time. Still, kink is not the primary focus of the household. I can't stress this enough.

There are a variety of people on this site with a variety of intentions. Just to be clear, I am here to find those who wish to relocate to me and serve me.  I am not here for games.  I am not here to talk about all the ways you might be played with in my adult room so you can masturbate.  I am not here for your pleasure.

This is a lifestyle that I live day to day and I invite you to contact me if you would like to make this your way of life.  I realize taking that step is difficult and I will reach out to some of you but please do not wait for me to do that.  

Adding me to your favorites list will not trigger me to reach out to you.  Not because I don’t care but due to the way I sort through profiles, I may not necessarily be able to see just who added me to their favorites.  

I look forward to meeting those of you who wish to serve me.

Please reach out to me if this is the life you want to live for the rest of your days.

Hard limits...

      Anything that threatens anyone’s physical-mental-spiritual health or safety (unprotected sex with anyone outside the household, eating feces, roaming a bad neighborhood alone, death, etc.)

     Giving money to potential s types who do not live in our home. If you need help getting here, I can pick you up if you are local or purchase a non-refundable bus ticket.

     Anything that has to do with any fur babies (I have 1 dog, 2 cats).

     Anything illegal

     Use of guns as a BDSM activity-prop (I am not anti-gun; I just respect them enough to not use them in play)

     Smoking – this is not even allowed away from the house as third hand smoke affects my asthma.

For those who identify as a sissy, yes you may contact us but keep this in mind I know what you mean when you say sissy but I am not sure that you know what the term actually means. Sissy is a derogative term for someone who acts in a stereotypical female way. Why, as a woman, would I encourage the concept that dressing or acting like a female is a negative thing? Being a female is something to celebrate, not something to use as an insult or humiliation. A man who wants the freedom to be female is empowered, now cowardly. I understand the concept of wanting the worst humiliation someone can come up with but to decide that means being a female is just another act of the patriarchy. Yes, some female dominants have bought into the concept. It doesnt make it any less insulting to those of us who are intelligent enough to know what it really means.