I would describe myself as inheritenly submissive but in what I believe to be with a healthy balance grounded in the real world. What does that mean in reality? I instinctively feel the need to please my partner in any and every way I possibly can and eagerly wish to fulfill those desires.  To the unknowing public eye, I'm a kind, caring, regular and respectable male who gets on with life without drama or drawing unwanted attention as I go about my professional life and I would be surprised if many would suspect the kinky side beneath the surface and I'm happy to retain that privacy just as I'm happy to respect yours. I have a long-standing appreciation of BDSM and thrive within the D/s dynamic where I know I perform at my very best as a sub but haven't been actively involved for a while.

I have been in a couple of D/s relationships in the past and explored a reasonable amount so like to think I have a good appreciation of what is expected of a sub but without a hint of arrogance or claim to know it all. That was several years ago and so what follows could be considered a journey of rediscovery but my goodness I miss that dynamic - it's just part of what makes me...me.

I'm often very chatty to those I know, some may even consider too much so but but I'm not someone who desperately messages every female on here in the hope that someone bites. I'd much prefer to invest the time and effort focusing on making one person feel very special than to play those sort of games. In truth, at the moment I'm content to freshen up this profile with a photo or two and see what happens. Over the years I've discovered some truly lovely people in the most unexpected places or times of life so lets see what fate brings.

I've purposely avoided mentioning too many specific fetishes or kinks - the sidebar will give some details but as is often the case in life, communication is key, and you never know what is possible unless you ask or guided in the right direction..