For whatever reason, some people separate sex and BDSM. If they are operating professionally, I can understand they wouldn't want to be considered prostitutes. I for one am not interested in meeting them.
Amateurs, don't have that problem. In fact, for many of us, the two are intimately intertwined. BDSM without the reward at some point can be pointless. Some aspect of BDSM IS our sex life or a big part of it.
If you disagree - and some will and will try to put me down for it - you just be you and let me, be me.

Thank you. 

I'm open to exciting conversations with singles and couples.
Say hi.

I'm not seeking the professional Dominatrix or the self-appointed Domme. I'd rather have the enthusiastic amateur looking for her person, with complementary interests, measuring happiness not by material things but with time spent together.

Now this might seem contradictory, given I like assertive women but I'm not looking to be bossed around all the time, dislike being bitched at, and would rather not deal with any woman who is constantly in a foul mood and needs to take it out on someone else. Sure, once in a while, for fun is acceptable but calm, even-tempered, and balanced is the personality type I seek. Add in loving and supportive; something too many 18-year-old pro-doms seem not to understand. And I'll keep money out of it as well, thank you.

I am more than willing to exchange messages, chat or hold phone conversations with Ladies on here even if we aren't interested in or in a position to meet in R/T. 

Do they make flavored ball gags?
I haven't had an opportunity to find out.

I'm open to More than my profile says but it takes forever to change a bio here so let this journal entry be official notification of that fact. 

This site seems to have become the website of nothing happening. No one wants to chat, no one wants to interact at all. 
I understand if you aren't interested in meeting a person or maybe they are too far away, but since you are here, why not chat a bit, exchange a message or two? You might make a friend.

There is a perfectly good messenger service here, but I don't mind using gmail either...

The Women here are inundated with unwanted messages. For that reason, I won't initiate contact.

If you would like to know about me, see if we have kinks in common, you'll have to start the ball rolling yourself. It really isn't that difficult.

You won't be one amongst dozens of other messages I receive, I promise you.

worshipru123 -Michigan

To be honest, I kinda thought sites like this would have seen a surge of new members and activity with everybody being confined (during covid) and all. But, it seems things went the opposite way. By and large the 'adult' sites went dead. Now though, things are once more picking up.

worshipru123 -Michigan

To be clear, I am a male seeking females.

I've noticed a few men looking at my profile and once in a while they send me a message.

No offense, but I'm not interested.

I remember this site from the Collarme days. It lost a lot in the transition to here and the last couple of years it has proven to be a clunky, slow, difficult platform to use. But I see improvements and if they can get more kinksters onboard it could really be something.

Merry Christmas. Alone this year? Me too, say hi. We can chat if you want. :)

The same people are on here every time and I include myself. I don't have any problems with that but I have pretty much interacted already with anybody of possible mutual interest here. We need new blood, ha ha.
Time for a recruiting campaign.  

I have found reading other people's journal entries interesting. Often times they are furthering their profile by asking for someone local to contact them.                                                   This has given me the idea that LADIES from anywhere should feel free to message me here for general conversations, erotic chat, phone talk or future considerations.

I get the fact that if you don't ask for it, it is harder to find. But some people are so particular about the it they seek, that they don't give others with similar but not the same exact specifications, an opportunity. 
On this site, we aren't given a lot of choices as to the role we put on our profiles. Using myself as an example, I have changed my orientation from dom to sub to switch hoping to find a woman I am compatible with because I feel the person, not the role is more important. If we get along otherwise, she and I can decide which role is best for US. So many filter out potential partners for really minor reasons. It must be nice having the luxury of so many people desiring you, that you can cut some of them off without further consideration.

I guess it doesn't matter, who is going to even read this?

Just because I don't have pictures here doesn't mean I don't have pictures.

My profile speaks for itself. All that aside, I wouldn't mind just finding a lady friend here to talk with once in awhile. 

I don't want to be funneled into a particular role, power exchange, kink etc.  I'm quite versatile. Whatever works for us, what we decide is 'our thing' is what I am ultimately seeking.

 Same with age. In general I prefer someone older, mature but the dynamic of how we get along is what really matters in the end. Age is just a loose indicator of our progress in life with references to various experiences that we may have in common.

I was just taking a look at some of the interactions I've had with people on here. Quite a few were at the beginning of the pandemic and many of them haven't been here since then. I hope they made it okay.