Collarspace

So I have thought about what to write here for a while. I was going to start with the usual, I'm a submissive don't assume that makes me your submissive etc etc stuff. I was going to write don't message me if you want to hook up but then the ones who send those messages never read this anyway so I am going to skip all that and just write about me. I entered the lifestyle years ago because something was missing. I had a happy and for filling life but it didn't feel like enough. I didn't know or understand anything, and I made mistakes along the way. I started in what I felt was the safest environment for me, and also the most practical at the time. I built some amazing relationships, friendships, and learnt a lot more about who I was without the fear of judgement. Later when I was braver I ventured out into the local community and started to have relationships in person. Again I made mistakes, met some wonderful people and learnt a lot. During this time I grew up a lot, matured into the person I am now, and learnt to not only understand myself, my needs, my strengths and weaknesses, but to also be more understanding of others, to become more accepting of people and situations I encountered. Some of this was down to my lifestyle choices, some was down to life lessons I learnt along the way. I developed a passion for writing that had always existed but never had a focus, an outlet. I learnt that I could voice my thoughts and could listen to others voice theirs. Taking my first step into this world was never intended to do anything more than satisfy a physical need inside me and yet it gave me more than I could ever have imagined. I still have learning to do, I still need to grow to improve to develop, I do not think this will ever change, but I do it as a more well rounded individual, happier with myself and the choices I make and supported by some good friends, strong mentors and the strongest most kick ass subs I know. On a relationship note. I am un collared and happily so. I have no desire to change that situation any time soon. Love chasi xx