I am a mid 40s young man who is exploring new things and learning about himself. For years I have repressed desires and fetishes that, at mid life, have exploded to the surface. I have lived in Florida for 9 years. I am married, professional, laid back, horny, pervy, and love humor. For the short time I have been exploring, I have had the tremendous fortune of being instructed by experienced, knowledgeable friends. I have a high degree of certainty that i am a submissive to dominant females, and maybe to the right alpha male. I know that I enjoy rope bondage and sensual play. I can handle a certain degree of pain and impact, but I would not call myself a masochist. I can see myself being a service sub. Due to my primary relationship, commitments, and profession, I am unable to make a full commitment at this time. Being a play partner is the most I can handle. I hope to connect socially with folks on Collarspace (also on Fetlie) and make new empathetic and non judgmental friends.