I am also a Man who can appreciate the "gifts" of a lady, whether these [gifts] are from her mind or body. Outside the realm of this alternative life style, I'm not really into the "bar scene"; I prefer going out to eat, maybe taking in a movie or just staying at home.

I am 5' 10"; have short gray goatee (that used to be red); a kind face with twinkling blue eyes; a little overweight at 235 lbs; and graying hair that used to be brown.

I would like to meet a lady who is interested in BDSM whom I could relate to where W/we can explore O/our sexuality together. I really don't expect nor can I participate in a 24/7 relationship due to my obligations to my job. For My part in being a Dom, I do realize that I must appreciate the "gift" of submission. I am also looking for someone who can be discreet because of my profession.