Introduction
Are you an AB/DL or little girl searching for a Daddy? Tired of men that seem to type with their dicks instead of their head? Hope to find a man that spends less time discussing your fetish and more time getting to know you? Well then, keep reading and send me a message if my profile strikes your fancy. :)
As mentioned above, I'm seeking a young girl with an interest in the AB/DL or little girl lifestyle. If you're familiar with the fetish great, you can skip all the terminology and ideology. However, if you're like most people and have a hard time grasping the concept, read on and feel free to ask me any questions pertaining to the subject. I'll gladly answer them to the best of my abilities using the knowledge I've accumulated over the years.
Terminology and Ideology...
Adult Baby (AB) - Individuals who enjoy living the lifestyle of a baby. This includes but is not limited to wearing diapers, drinking from bottles, sleeping in cribs, etc... Essentially they seek the most authentic experience possible, and sometimes that means their caregiver must pay attention to each and every detail.
Diaper Lover (DL) - Individuals who enjoy wearing diapers, but often times choose to avoid everything else associated with AB's as listed above. DL's may still sometimes use certain things an AB uses such as a pacifier, bottle, etc... However, these things are typically kept to a minimum depending on the person.
Little Girl (LG) - Individuals who enjoy acting like a young child or adolescent. Like AB/DL's, most LG's typically seek a Daddy or Mommy figure in their lives. However, they often times avoid diapers because they find them to be weird or unsanitary. Still, they seek things often times associated with AB/DL relationships such as comfort, moral support, structure, discipline, etc...
Why would someone choose to be an AB/DL/LG?
That's a good question, but there's many different ways to answer it. People become an AB/DL/LG for all sorts of different reasons. Some of them take to it instinctively due to traumatic experiences in their life (i.e. divorce, neglect, abuse, etc...) Depending upon the severity of the issues, this fetish can become less of a want and more of an emotional need for the submissive.
Others choose this under their own free will because they simply enjoy it. Who can blame them though, escapism is common in adulthood. While some people find it in vices like drugs or alcohol, where's the harm in an adult seeking their escape in a relationship where they get to relinquish their adult responsibilities for awhile?
I heard that AB/DL/LG's (insert stereotype here), is this true?
Well, like most groups of people, AB/DL/LG's tend to be very diverse. Not to mention, there's also quite a few bad apples that stigmatize AB/DL/LG's as a group. With that being said, it's important to keep an open mind when dealing with this subject. You can never judge an AB/DL/LG based on a few odd experiences.
Many of them will share certain similarities, but very few of them will be exactly alike. Here's a few of the basics that you need to know though...
* This fetish is NOT linked to Pedophilia in any way, shape, or form.
* AB/DL/LG's are NOT mentally ill, unstable, etc...
* Being an AB/DL/LG is NOT a sign of weakness.
* Not all AB/DL/LG's want a sexual relationship.
* Not all AB/DL/LG's want a public relationship.
A little about me...
If asked to describe myself, I would simply say that I'm a dreamer, a thinker, a creator, and above all an artist. I enjoy constructive creativity, and I have an overwhelming passion for music. In fact, I'm currently working on teaching myself the basics of different digital audio programs since I enjoy quite a bit of electronic music. It's something I do in my spare time alongside my full time job of course, but I hope to continue that and actually make my own music someday. Even if it doesn't lead itself to be self sustaining, I will enjoy it as a hobby because I believe strongly in my passion.
As for my personality, I'm a straight shooter and the type of man who wears his heart on his sleeve. Most people would say that I'm polite, respectful, honest, trustworthy, intelligent, charming, chivalrous, compassionate, generous, nurturing, and friendly. I'm also a really good listener and always help others before helping myself. It's kind of the philosophy I live by, and I take pride in that.
What I'm seeking...
In order to describe the exact relationship I seek, I feel it's important that I tell you what I'm not looking for first.
* I'm NOT looking for a submissive. slave, pet, etc...
I'm looking for a girl who enjoys being an AB/DL/LG, there's a huge difference. D/s relationships are based on the notion that the submissive, slave, or pet are inferior to the Dominant. I'm looking for a girl that will be an equal in this relationship.
* I'm NOT looking to use you sexually or physically abuse you.
In my opinion, chemistry is more important than sex. This is especially true in long term relationships, because living your fantasy 24/7 is completely unrealistic. You will eventually need some type of "downtime". During those times, it's important to be with someone you connect with on a multitude of different things.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that an intimate relationship wouldn't be possible with the right individual. All I'm saying is that putting it in your first message is a huge turn off. I firmly believe a Daddy needs to build a level of trust with their baby/little girl before sex even becomes a possibility in the relationship.
The ideal girl should be a little bit of an intellectual as well. Someone who appreciates the psychology behind all of this, as well as having open discussions about big ideas.
Still updating my profile...check back soon! :)
