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Dadda5000
| Hetero Male, 37, Denver, Colorado
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Black American working overseas. Just here to meet new people and chat.
So I have noticed that many so called "doms" don't really understand what it is they are dominating. Many people I have spoken to think of it as simply sexual. For some this may actually be the case, but for many it is so much more than that.
When someone submits to you, PE be it total or partial there is a level of care that must be given. A submissive must be guided, made to feel they are safe, and cared for. Yes punishment may be part of the dynamic, I prefer to call it correction. A dominant must provide leadership not simply order a submissive around, that is not leadership
"The COMMANDER stands for the virtues of wisdom, sincerity, benevolence, courage and strictness."
-Sun Tzu
You must not seek, nor desire to beat someone into submission. You can not take someones will, it must be given freely of their own accord. Once you have it, you have them.
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4/6/2014 10:14:57 AM: I'm frustrated.
1st off I am not a 'bull' a bull is a mindless animal with horns. I am a man with an IQ in the 2nd standard deviation, if you don't know what that means Google is your friend.
2nd. No, I will not share you. I am way too controlled and entirely to possessive to share my woman with another man, be it your husband or whoever. What is mine is mine so if you want to be 'lent out' I am not the man for you.
Finally, please be more than an anatomy. Yes biologically you have what I desire. However what is between your legs isn't what defines you, it is what is between your ears. There is nothing sexier than intelligence so please come with something better than I will 'fuck you senseless' and 'take care of you.' I want your mind, I can get laid anywhere and I can either take care of or hire someone to do my cleaning. Please if you want to impress me, be able to hold a decent conversation.
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