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I'm a switch and an avid photographer with a kinky adventurous streak. I'm full of contradictions and find that I'm ok with that. I don't believe in fairytales or happily-ever-afters, and I'll only trust you as far as I can throw you (not really into tossing people though.. pulling or stretching maybe.. suspending, absolutely), and therefor I won't bind you in with unrealistic expectations or loyalties.

I love to give - ask and you shall receive - though it might not always be in the manner in which you thought you wanted. I'm playful and inventive and sometimes a little cruel.

I have children of my own and find myself quite satisfied with that. The baby factory has been closed down and I won't be adding any more. I'm extremely possessive and protective and proud of my family.

Life is an adventure, often a topsy turvy adventure, but still a joyful one all around.

Please - if you are involved in a committed relationship and your spouse/partner is not aware of and/or approving of your endeavours through this site, I'm not interested.