Collarspace BDSM Community

Updated 05/08/2017

Read my profile completely before messaging me. It will save us both a lot of time. If your messages show you did not read this, I will not be receptive to them.

My alpha and I recently celebrated O/our two year anniversary. W/we have a stable home and progress has been lovely, so W/we have been seeking another female to join U/us for O/our mutual enjoyment. W/we are both strongly polyamorous and seek new compatible relationships. O/our couple profile is "ViolenceFetish" if one is interested. Message Me on that profile as I am far more active on it. This profile is only for reference at this point.

Women are at their best when they are kept under constant training and control and immersed in their own humiliation. I most enjoy dehumanizing, ifying, and humiliating them through any available method. They should be regularly tortured and reminded of their places as slaves to the desires of Dominant men. What I seek most is a woman to keep as a pet as the animal it is and should be. Treated as an animal in every humiliating way. It deserves nothing more. If you know your place and think you're worthy enough to stay beneath me me on all fours where you belong, then message me. Otherwise, don't waste our time.

Dehumanizing, ifying, and mentally breaking slaves down to their base instincts through psychology, torture, humiliation, and sensory deprivation are among my favorite things. I much enjoy reverting a woman to its base instincts and its true purpose in life, whether that be an animal, bimbo, or pain craving masochist. I turn them into dogs and pigs to be optimally trained and used. My training is not role play. I will create real and lasting changes in my slaves, down to very basic things they take for granted until they're gone.

I am also an extreme sadist and a dacryphiliac. I enjoy making a pain slut cry. I can push a slave's limits when it comes to their ability to take pain. I can and will put a slave through its share of humiliation, degradation, and torture. If any would-be slaves aren't scared yet, they should message. it probably means I'm exactly what they're looking for.

I am polyamorous. I do not restrict my emotions to one person. If you think you're going to convince me you're "the one" you are wasting your time and mine. I can form lifetime relationships. I can commit. But I cannot be monogamous. I am not an online Dominant. I have had real life, full time M/s relationships of varying degrees my entire adult life. I'm looking to take my Dominance a step further into the most extreme areas of my psyche. I am seeking a fulfillment I have yet to find in most wannabe slaves. I am real and serious about what I want. I can relocate the proper, serious, real slave, should I find it.

I am here to form real relationships. They can start online, but with the intention of becoming a real life, full time relationship. Other things I'm not interested in include the tired "what would you do to me?" questions. Anything about my "ideal" or "perfect" situation or about speculation on hypothetical situations. Do not message me to tell me how much you like my pictures. Do not message me to argue your feminism versus my misogyny. One word messages will receive one word responses. I reply to all messages. Whether I am kind about it depends on what you choose to say to Me.

Due to the massive number of fakes on this site, if you are unable or unwilling to prove your reality after a brief period of getting to know each other, don't waste your time or mine by messaging me. I will not start any sort of relationship with someone who won't even show their face. It doesn't have to be immediately. It does have to be soon.

I am typically on mobile and unable to accept chat requests. I have yahoo, kik, and Skype upon request. Do not send me a friend request if I don't know you at all. I have photos of myself available upon request. I can cam verify. I am drug and disease free. Despite the overbearing nature of my profile, I am an honorable person who takes my commitments very seriously.

6/14/2016 10:28:30 AM: Finally got My couple profile 'ViolenceFetish' written. It's hard enough trying to sum up one person into the profile box, much less a person and a pet in the same box. I'm still not pleased with it and I will surely update it soon.

3/12/2015 6:16:38 PM: People assume much, but know so little.

12/24/2014 7:39:33 PM: People come to me asking me to humiliate and degrade them, but they don't understand what that means to me. I'm not here to tell you what a whore you are so you can get yourself off. My brand of humiliation goes far beyond simple name calling. My intent is to break a slave's shame. To dig inside of its head and pull everything out of it. To push the buttons that hurt. To make one aware of exactly what it is. To push it to the point where it is truly ashamed and keep pushing until it reaches true acceptance. Until it no longer feels shame and denial, but rather knows itself for exactly what it is. Forcing it to accept itself and accept that I want the filthy thing it is because it is filthy, not despite it. This is not something I can do for a random stranger. And this is not for everyone. If you just want some name calling play, there are plenty of others for that. What I do is much deeper and, quite frankly, can't be handled by most. I can typically tell who can handle it and who can't. Even when they don't actually know, themselves. I have had instances in the past where my training was rejected only for one to later realize exactly how much it truly did need what I knew all along about it.

12/24/2014 7:12:47 PM: My interest in heavy humiliation and degradation does not stem from a lack of confidence in myself, as I am so often accused of. It is merely a sexual kink. Something I enjoy. I do not need to belittle others to make myself feel better in any way. Outside of my M/s relationships, I am quite a different person and I don't carry these insults into vanilla life. In fact, I tend to be very opposite of my sadism in other company. I am confident in who I am. I know my flaws and I work to make those things about myself better. I cannot fully explain why I am a sadist. Why I enjoy seeing a woman in pain. Why I enjoy making them cry or making them feel low. It is just part of who I am. I accept it, embrace it, and seek out those who fit well with it. I find it to be a valuable training tool to place a slave in a lower place, psychologically, and helping them focus on their service more than their pride and self image.

12/21/2014 5:44:00 PM: Too many people accept failure without making any real effort towards what they want. If you're so sure you'll fail, then what is the real harm in trying? I don't understand the mentality of fear of rejection. Sounds more like fear of potential success to me. You're already rejected. Rejecting yourself. When you choose not to try because you think you only deserve rejection.

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