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I will refine this profile as time goes by and I see areas that need refinement. In the meantime ...

I promise you this I will hurt you. But I will not harm you.

If you are not interested in having an older, experienced dominant man in your life this profile will probably not be of interest to you.

I seek a 247 1950s housewife, or partner. Of course we are not going to leap from our Hello email exchange directly into cohabitation - but a journey of 10,000 tears begins with the first really good slap across your ass, no? I am not interested in an online relationship, nor in a married slavesub, nor in a long-distance relationship or fuck buddyFWB situation.

Time will tell whether we click, so I am willing to give us some time. But if we do find that we cant live without each other then we should live together, no?

There are traits that I want in my slavesubmissive, and those that I do not want. I will talk about those, and then tell you about myself.

Want

1) Someone that I can trust...trust with my life, trust with my heart. Trust not to judge me, but to serve me without qualm or hesitation. Trust, interpreted as broadly as our abilities to define will permit. A slave with integrity. Honest and true. That is what I offer. That is what I require.

2) An intelligent submissive. One who is wise, but not hardened. One who knows what she does not know and realizes that knowing that is the beginning of wisdom. I dont care about university degrees or published academic papers - if you have them, fine. If you dont, thats fine too. But you must enjoy learning because to me, a day in which I do not learn something new is a wasted day. I am not an opera or ballet fan, but we can go try it out. These days I work too much to read many books, but if you read one, tell me about it.

3) A woman who likes to have fun and who wants ME to have fun as well. One who is socially outgoing and somewhat extroverted, a conversationalist.

4) A kind woman. Generous - not with money - but with attention, affection, concern. Not selfish or self-centered.

5) An interesting woman with an interest in life, new experiences, learning more.

6) A woman who has limits - MY limits. (And btw, there are not many of those. Some, but not many.)

7) A woman who will make me the center of her world, as she will be that in mine. But also one who understands that we have obligations that must be attended to.

8) A sex fiend.

9) A woman who believes in communication.

10) A woman who does not expect me to do all the work in our relationship or in the dungeon. One who is respectfully aggressive, who pursues me for possible play.

11) A decent cook and masseuse. (Actually, this should have been much higher up.)

Not want

1) Rude erudition. Snobs.
2) Attitude.
3) Resistance.
4) Denial of my desires - not once, not ever.
5) Whininess.
6) Clinginess. Stalkers. Obsessives.
7) Ill-tempered.
8) Prudishness.
9) Passive-aggressive personalities.
10) Jealousy.
11) Anti-smokers. Anti-gun people.
12) Sloths.
13) Addicts.
14) Teetotalers.
15) Close-minded people.
16) Disrespectful people.

Who am I?

I have done a number of things for a living over the years, but do not think any of them define me.

Some would see me as a multi-degreed professional, others as a brash, foul-mouthed lout. Its all a matter of perception. I have come a long way in this life from where I started, literally, but this is measured in opportunities and experiences, not in income.

I am a modest man, not given to showing off. Quiet and often reserved. But not given to allowing anyone to get up on me, put me down, take advantage of me, embarrass me, or bully me or mine. Those are the fastest ways to see how fast and how hot my fuse can burn.

I am protective of those dear to me, to a fault. Not a violent man - by choice, but certainly no stranger to violence.

Someone writing my autobiography (tho no one would) would mention that I am dominant to the core and that my dominance and authority is of a quiet nature, usually. They might talk about the sometimes odd manifestations of that trait in me. They would certainly talk about the breadth of my skills and ease with which I learn new ones. Hobbies and interests would come up - photography, computerscomputing, IT, law, firearms (certified pistol instructor and IL CCL trainer, hedonism, and its related appetites.

In the dominance, bdsm, sense of things, I am dominant and require a deeply submissive woman. No, not a door mat ... well maybe only every other Weds. night.

My woman must take and show pleasure from that because that is how I feed. If you do not want, desire, lust for what I do to you, then I do not take pleasure in doing it and that will be fatally frustrating to me. So, you MUST feed my lusts or there is no point. I am open to the idea of going out to the area dungeons, and once did from time to time, but that is not a preference for me. I am not all that social, actually, but open to the idea of generally becoming more so.

What else can I tell you? I require your kitty to be totally shaved. No landing strips. No fuzz patches. Totally shaved. Always. Panties-never. Bra-sometimes, maybe. A good woman should be pampered at times. Not spoiled. Nurtured and rewarded.

Reality TV bores the shit out of me. I like procedural movies and TV programs. I dig superhero movies, detective shows and movies and books. Rock n Roll and Lounge Music own my soul, but Punk Rock Chix come in a real close second (E.G., Somebody Mixed My Medicine by The Pretty Reckless on YouTube, and I Wanna Be Sedated by The Ramones. OK, The Ramones are not chix, but you get the idea, right?).

I like pets but dont really want one right now - other than YOU. I am not an Old School Master, nor do I follow Gorean protocols. I also am not interested in tie-n-tickle bdsm.

The 1950s lifestyle suits me quite well.

Yes, I am a complicated man. A good and worthy woman will feel rewarded in uncomplicating my life.