8/3/2012 2:20:21 PM: seems i've made myself out to be a bit hypocritical..in fairness, when i said  'submission is something I choose to give. I choose if, when, and how. Submitting to another does NOT mean doing anything and everything he desires, and it is certainly NOT something that can be demanded.'  i was refering to sexually submissive fun.    i think when love enters an equation, all bets are off. so, yeah - in the case of being genuinely in love (or caught up in the moment), it's not so much a choice.  i know it to be true of myself, and believe that in general, love makes people do things they wouldn't otherwise.  so :-P

6/30/2012 12:22:26 AM: Wow...I acknowledge & embrace the many different ways of viewing life & love, relationships & romance. However, if I read one more weakly strung together sentence about the 'natural social order of male dominance and female inferiority,' or any other pathetic claims about how it is surely every woman's desire to be controlled by a man, to have him make decisions for her, or other b.s. I cannot bring myself to repeat - I may find a way to projectile vomit thru my computer into the laps of these doormat seeking losers. I have as much respect for someone seeking (or offering) blind submission as someone proffering blind faith.   By any and all means - seek your bliss; live a life that fulfills you. Fuck what anyone else thinks. But also, expect to be told to fuck off if you contact me spewing verbage about male supremacy. My submission is a gift few are worthy of. Rooted in my inner strength and independence, submission is something I choose to give. I choose if, when, and how. Submitting to another does NOT mean doing anything and everything he desires, and it is certainly NOT something that can be demanded. ....that's all I have to say about that. for now.