Okay, you can pretty much ignore anything below the line if you wish. It's all nice and pretty and you might find it interesting if what you seek is a LTR. (and I'm reluctant to just toss it out) But, for now I feel a strong urge to get to the heart of the matter and say what I really want as soon as possible.
I am seeking a rope bottom for regular rope practice. I have a lot of experience with rope but I feel like I'm falling behind the curve.
Age, experience or size are not important. My only real requirement is a reasonable amount of flexibility and endurance. I can work with some physical limitations--practically everyone has something. If you are wondering about that, ask.
I will respect whatever boundaries you want to set.
Serious inquiries only please.
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Devo toccare una donna a vivere.
It is very difficult not to become cynical about all this. But here we both are.
This is where I'm supposed to convince you that I am different from all the poseurs and predators on this site. Truly, there is no way to do that with mere words. Anyone can string words together in any order. All that clever words can prove is that I am clever with words.
I'm looking for a real life day to day D/s relationship with a fully realized human being who happens to be a woman.
Exactly what kind of relationship is undefined because it will depend in large part on her needs--except that there will be rope, and spanking, and power exchange, and all sorts of other wicked, kinky fun. I was a Daddy for a while--still am as we keep in touch--and it seemed to suit me. But I have been feeling more... I don't know. Harder? Harsher? More sadistic of late.
I'm not looking for an online relationship.
I am strongly attracted to overtly sexual women, those who feel the need to transgress societal boundaries, exhibitionists and those who may or may not self-identify as a "slut" but feel urges in that direction.
But, if you don't have your partner's consent, if finding out what you are doing will harm your relationship, then I can't be a party to that. On the other hand, if this will somehow enhance and stabilize your life with and your love for them, I too will be gratified and empowered.
I accept that people aren't perfect but I am not so desperate that I would get involved with someone who I don't actually like just to have someone.
Some things about me:
I retired from a successful career because I wanted to be free to live my life as I wish. I live simply but well. I am quite active in the local community and have many friends. I am constantly learning new things and experimenting with new techniques. If that doesn't scare you, it should.
I write dirty stories. Very dirty stories. I do it for money. I do it because I love it.
I make toys. Very good ones. People give me money for them. And because I love it.
I tie people up--usually women, but not always--because I love it.
I spank and flog and cane because (you guessed it) I love it.
I have other, vanilla, interests as well. I also have many friends in and out of the lifestyle. I sometimes love to cook.
The photo of me is probably the most honest that I can post. It looks so vanilla but what you are seeing is me about to tie someone up and suspend them from the gingerbread of a gazebo in a public park somewhere in New Jersey.
I run a group on a meetup sight to help lost kinksters find their way into the community. Look for "Philly Area Kinky Outreach." I am on the network with the black background(starts with "Fet" and ends with "Life")under the same user name. There are lots of pictures there...
Don't be fooled. I am an old school gentleman and a gentle, soft spoken man who will gladly drag you across the room by your hair with a twinkle in his eye.