my preference is being in a nice relationship in normal life and when right be a very nice polite man trying to be eye candy for the lady roleplaying to make her happy but also feeling it is special too .

nothing like putting on a collar and pinny and serveing a glass of wine or nice cup of tea to a  lady to make her feel special

to see her face when she looks is priceless

then kneeling in front of her as she sips and you can see her mind working and thinking what she wants to do next