10/15/2016 9:17:33 PM: I am a Sensual Domina who is NOT into S&M, looking for a sensual sub who is not ashamed of his innate submissiveness to his Lady Love, who knows that his heart's desire is to be owned by a special Mistress who is into inflicting erotic pleasure, not pain.  Keeping lines of communications open is key.  Open and flowing organically.  The closest type of D/s dynamic which fits what I have in mind is an FLR.  Not all Female Led Relationships are conceptually the same, but there are still two vital components. One is ownership, and until we have made that mutual commitment, I am not officially your Mistress (and neither is any other Domme) and you did not suddenly become my pet submissive-slave.  This goes part and parcel with a bilaterally negotiated Power Exchange where the sub accepts the Domme's authority, and she agrees to 'collar' her partner, which means your Mistress is in charge and control of the partnership as your protective Owner and you belong to her.

9/16/2015 4:01:34 AM: For those of you who do take the time to read through profiles and journal entries, I commend you for your efforts.  It shows that you're not just on this site to perv photo galleries for sexually provocative pics.  However, if your message gets routed into my Bulk Mail folder, it is because you don't meet certain age & location parameters I have set. You don't ask for all the junk mail you receive, nor do you reply to every credit card offer you have no interest in.  So here's a recap: -- My interpersonal relationship baseline is friendship, but I'm not looking for a casual relationship, nor for a play partner, and I'm not here to make more friends. -- I don't do on-line D/s, I don't IM or do 'chats,' and I don't cam. -- If you are young enough to be my son, you have no business contacting me. -- If you are over (60+) my preferred age range, you would have to be an exceptionally well-suited match for me as a life partner in EVERY OTHER WAY. -- If you are not a fellow sapiosexual, you probably won't stand much of a chance with me in the romance dept.

12/9/2013 8:04:17 PM: I dream of rain I dream of gardens in the desert sand I wake in vain I dream of love as time runs through my hand I dream of fire Those dreams are tied to a horse that will never tire And in the flames Her shadows play in the shape of a man's desire This desert rose Each of her veils, a secret promise This desert flower No sweet perfume ever tortured me more than this And as she turns This way she moves in the logic of all my dreams This fire burns I realize that nothing's as it seems I dream of rain I dream of gardens in the desert sand I wake in pain I dream of love as time runs through my hand I dream of rain I lift my gaze to empty skies above I close my eyes Her rare perfume, is the sweet intoxication of her love I dream of rain I dream of gardens in the desert sand I wake in pain I dream of love as time runs through my hand Sweet desert rose Each of her veils, a secret promise This desert flower No sweet perfume ever tortured me more than this Sweet desert rose This memory of Eden haunts us all This desert flower This rare perfume, is the sweet intoxication of the fall Desert Rose by Sting ♪Layli ya layli ya♪ ✫Oh night, Oh night✫ ♪Hada'i mada tawila♪ It has been so long a time ♪♪♪Wa'na n'hawes ana wahala ghzalti♪♪♪ I am looking for my soul mate ♪Aman aman aman aman'ah...♪ ♪Omry feek entiya♪ My life is for you ♪♪Ma ghair entiya♪♪ No one other than you ♪Ya lili ah ya leel♪ ✫My night, Oh night✫http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gzqsmx1KGU   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3lWwBslWqg (Official music video, Sting featuring Algerian singer Cheb Mami) Enigma4: 'Between Mind & Heart' The Screen Behind the Mirror https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WVK2yDEKrdU&list=PL9FCD4C67912254B8&index=2 Madonna: 'Future Lovers' Confessions Tour (2006 Full DVD)   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17ufyF48MrM&list=PL46F72BA89B9C1980