I am a switch, although more like 75% Sub with a wee new Domme side that has surprised me by popping up in the past couple of years. I will never say never to the idea of a relationship with a Dom - the right person can push them subby buttons

Now if you got this far here is where I am likely to disappoint 

I dont do pain, its ouchy and it makes me angry - no fun in it for me

I dont 'play' I am only involved in kink as part of a monogamous relationship, its all about the mind for me and to know how to play around in someone's head  I feel I need to really get to know, understand and trust them 100%

I like mental conditioning, bondage, kinky submission and male chastity and teasing

Sorry no cross dressers, it dosent offend me but dosent attract me either 

that will do for now - should give you a little better an idea - oh and the image is me - it is from quite a while ago because I dont really have that many shots of me - I still wear corsets and PVC and have long purple hair now (nope - its red now - changes a lot)

ETA  - damn it!! do I have to say this already. Im not a Mistress, please do not address me as such - that is not you serving me that is you forcing your kink onto me. IF and when my Domme side comes out to play with someone they have to earn the right to use titles with me. Remember truly submitting to someone wont be just like you imagined, 

Ohhh my first grump and I havent even been here 24 hours!