I've been active on and off in the scene for almost a decade. I'm originally from the Midwest and moved out here to pursue a new (and so far wonderful) career. I am still learning a lot about the differences in the AZ scene, along with similarities (RACK/SSC and communication are obviously universals).

I switch. My role varies depending on the energy, mood, and arrangements of a scene. A firm, motherly tone can certain cause me to slip into a bottom mode while bratty or submissive actions catapult me into top space, at least during natural scenes. I have/can service bottom and/or top, though I prefer not to. I instead enjoy my selective stance on play partners while still providing instruction and conversation to just about anyone.

A few things about me

Vanilla:

• Goofy, fun, and likes to be carefree
• Recent transplant from the Midwest
• Plays guitar, rock-climbs, does freelance web development, gamer
• Compassionate and thoughtful
• Very open-minded and honest

Kink (just to name a few I top AND bottom with):

• Typical impact play (stingy over thuddy)
• Sensory deprivation
• Shibari/Kinbaku
• Some medical play
• Roleplaying (LOVE roleplay)
• Forced crossdressing (obviously mostly me)
• Anal play
• Diapers and/or Ageplay (the two aren't mutually exclusive)
• Anything to render one completely helpless

I feel the best part of any scene or play is the aftercare. I love building that emotional connection with whoever I play with. Anyone can beat, dominate, or submit to anyone else. The quality comes with the aftercare and taking the time to really understand your partner(s) in the scene. It's a thrill and joy to learn what engaged them psychologically, emotionally, and possibly sexually in that scene.