Switch Male Seeks Dominant or submissive mistress. I'm a fifty-nine year old male, 5' 10", 185 lbs. I'm easy going, sociable, and get along with everyone. I'm trustworthy and would love a female play toy to pleasure.  Someone that would be putty under the hand of a caring, dominant Master. On the other hand, finding a suitable dominant Mistress would also be a quest for me.  In that I'm into the balance of things, this is easy to understand.  Therefore, those are the pleasures of being a switch in the lifestyle. To begin, I have always had a desire to be dominated by women or in charge. It goes back to my earliest experiences as a child that i won't go into here. But I do remember little girls playing Indian and tying up the boys. Unfortunately, I wasn't one of the boys. But now being in charge and tying up my partner is as much fun, in that I've been on both sides of the equation.  In any event, these ideas were pushed back into the shadows of my mind. . You might get the impression that this occurs often.  It doesn't, but I'm seeking someone now. As to experience every situation is different. I guess I'm up for most activities as long as it doesn't leave long lasting marks and is not life threatening. Of course, limits are always respected. It's all about pleasure and having fun.  With all that being said, please respond, and let's have some fun.