I have finally decided to complete my profile. I was in a Dominant relationship 10 years before 50 Shades was released. I am intelligent and find that an attractive attribute on my partner, yes you can be submissive and still be witty and intelligent. I am creative and enjoy creating the next adventure. I have actually met a couple Subs through the site and the only issue was geography and still have communications with one who is in the South. I enjoy many pieces of the BDSM relationship and as the relationship grows with that Sub so grows the intensity and connection. I am not into extremes; anything illegal, scat,, etc. I love the control aspect, telling you what to wear before dinner, tying you up and you not knowing what happens next, Breast play, nipple play, orgasm control, spankings, lingiere, toys, blindfolds, building the excitement as I take charge. Fierce sex when you are at your limits and cannot hold back. There is so much more than cannot be described in a couple paragraphs. Within the last year I did have an introduction into the Daddy Dom which I found interesting and fun. At this juncture I am looking for someone that can experience these pieces and share other aspects in a vanilla setting. I live on the water and have had a succesful career. The best way to see if there is a connection is through communication.