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Hetero Female Dominant, 46,  Atlanta, Georgia
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J4truth

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This lady seeks houseboy preferably under 45 for part time (Saturdays)leading to full time (Live- in) duties around the house. I AM in Michigan and will be moving due to a job change coming up in August 2020 so this will be long distance to begin.


Anyone gaining the position of full time would need to have a real career and be a confident and competent professional on the outside with service oriented preferences in private. Have a career to join with my income and be managed together to support our trips and even (the ultimate goal) retirement. A TRUE 4th level FLR is what I seek. YOU must be attentive, eager and consistent.


I want a sexy play partner, arm candy, houseboytoy, conversationalist, massage therapist and quiet devoted lapdog that I can choose to treat good or bad or even ignore as he begs...depends how my moods swing -)


I am a simple lady with a dominant personality. If you are looking for, rubber, leather boot fantasy or to be put in a cage, made to drink p!s THEN I AM NOT YOUR WOMAN.I AM ABSOLUTELY NOT INTERESTED IN CROSS DRESSERS or Sissies!!!


to me...there is nothing sexier than knowing my orders will be followed. I am naturally dominant personality, however I am subtle with display. Im simply not into BS and flirting (which to me is awkward and you are basically lying about your personality) it is basically hiding behind pussywhipping a guy into following me. I am an Educated and career oriented woman seeking younger males ONLY for possible LTR. I am thick, cute and interested in making one very special boy extremely happy (or sad depending on the mood Im in) any given day...services will be challenging, demanding, irrational, fun, contemplative or any number of whatever the hell I feel like.



If you wish for a meaningful, long-lasting FLR with an intelligent, happy, playful, mentally strong woman...you have permission to contact me) I repeat... I dont think this happens overnight. Dont expect me to go right into a scene as I am not a pro domme and not here to play act for your one time jollies.


I use the most innocent items for Learning (your) threshold. I dont need a lot of props. males who show patience and endurance are whom I seek. Most of this is mental TPE.

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 J4truth

 Dominant Female

 Atlanta 

 Georgia

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 3"

 150 lbs

 46

 Hetero

 African Descent

 08/24/13

 

Actively Seeking:

Sub / Slave Male

 Lives For:

 You being my domestic servant

 Mental Bondage

 Total control over your orgasms

 Loves:

 Beachcombing

 Fine Dining

 Movies

 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 You massaging me

 Hair Pulling

 You doing all of the housework

 Utilizing spanking to maintain your obedience

 Giving you speech restrictions

 Board Games

 Comedy Shows

 Cooking

 Singing

 Nutrition

 Psychology

 Writing

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Clubbing

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Shopping

 Volunteerism

 Blindfolding you

 Keeping you locked in chastity at all times

 Eye contact with me is not permitted

 Humiliating you

 Massage (Giving)

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service

 Sensory deprivation

 Tickling you while you are bound

 Vibrators

 Card Games

 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Karaoke

 Meditation

 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music

 Jazz

 Nineties Music

 R&B

 Reggae

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Tolerates:

 Begging

 Curious About:

 Wax Play

 Dislikes:

 Collars

 Masks on Partner

 Hates:

 Crossdressing

 Gags

 Gas Masks

 Hoods

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Hard Limits:

 Diapers

 Dilation

 Electrical Play

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Fire Play

 Fisting

 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Munches

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Watersports

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Journal Entries:
6/23/2022 7:01:59 PM

I have not written a note in so long. Life has been changing so much lately. new job, different city, then another new job and another old city. Now I am on a summer sabbatical of travel through the Atlanta and Savannah areas because I find it peaceful and love both cities for different reasons.

 

I need a new boy. A real boy with great energy, quiet strength and a cute smile.

 

I want him to dance for me. I want him to cook for me and share his secret thoughts that he seems too shy to tell anyone else. I wan thim naked and begging for me. I want him to clean and work for me. I want him to smile for me.

I want that sweetness that is calm and not weak while also not being arrogant. I want him to NOT know everything because I still do NOT. I should be the ONE who gets to decide everthing but I should NOT HAVE to be the ONE who THINKS of everything.

 

I wonder if this is to found anywhere? I will hope for it. You don't have to be a perfect boy to start with me, but you do have to HOPE to become one for me.


12/2/2016 12:36:00 PM
I think I just want to get married. Maybe I can find a mail order husband.

9/30/2016 4:10:07 PM
let love, respect and playing to each other’s strengths to govern the relationship. Read more at http://www.ebony.com/love-sex/gender-roles-relationships#ixzz4LmdWopbi http://www.ebony.com/love-sex/gender-roles-relationships#axzz4LmYk4ChA

8/8/2016 12:19:31 PM
Don't DARE tell me how you want to be a chastity sub. A sub does NOT DICTATE how and when I can use his cock. That which belongs to me is for MY use. I touch, fondle, spank, tease, ride, torture and use the cock for my pleasure and the TRUE sub will revel in his service to me.

8/4/2016 10:38:06 PM
I'm exasperated by the idiocy of some of these "subs" I'll meet you at a Starbucks and if I don't invite you home immediately thereafter you'll pull a typical fake sub move and not follow up. Most don't have the patience and respect to meet properly. To get vetted properly. Most think anybody declaring themselves a "sub" should be privy to my home immediately. No thought towards common sense or my safety?? I get these offers 5 times a week. Imagine if I gave my home address out that many times a week? I'd be murdered in less than a month by some fake predator. Or at the very least robbed and when you report something like that to police and say "I met him online" Boy how stupid do you look? Perhaps these idiots think I'm in a palace surrounded by gaurds? How much online porn must you watch before you actually think there's any likelihood that any of us REAL ladies are surfing for boys from within a palace. THAT lady isn't on collarspace, she has a caretaker whose job it is to find sub's. Out here in the real world a REAL domme works her 9-5 and expects her sub to do the same. To be sane. To be intelligent and productive within society. To be a regular guy and a sexy "trophy husband" my own male version of Melania Trump!!

8/2/2016 6:11:02 PM
Dominant Women are not here for sub men or slave men to get offf. REAL DOMINANT WOMEN do not make a mans orgasm their priority

7/26/2016 1:02:16 AM
I'm only saying I'm disappointed in myself because I wasted time getting to know a boys over this last several months who have all turned out to unable to be consistent or follow through primarily because they are not real and don't know it. I wrote that last message because many messages I get are claiming to be sub's but the first and only thing they want to discuss is sexual service or bondage. Bondage takes time to get to since a trust and rapport must be built and I don't appreciate being used as an outlet for him to get off on his chosen method of not getting off. That is not sub service and my profile clearly states that's not what I'm looking for. Yes sexual and sensual pleasures are part of the relationship but you have to build a relationship first. (I'm not risking myself to legal repercussions just to race to fulfill some ass holes dream of being "forced" into something. Anything) These subs that think otherwise are fooling themselves and wasting the time of good dommes. This behavior is no different than the guy on match dot com who plays the same move on a lady in the vanilla world. "Oh hey i like your profile and see you posted for ltr but would it be cool if we just meet at a motel cuz im not really in a position right now for all that, but you were just so cute" Men are still men even if they claim to know what being a sub is and most men have been trained since birth to persuade women to just do whatever he wants. Even if he wants to be a sub he can then be a selfish sub. These subs are fakers who are "topping from the bottom". I will not abide such behavior.

7/24/2016 4:01:52 PM
It's so sad. I'm starting to acknowledge that after the biggest surgery of my life 3 days ago, I am disappointed in myself as a domme. I had a Beautiful set of family members come to take me home from the hospital. They have shown such love in so many simple tasks that I lost temporarily. The ability to walk, to turn on your side, to get your own painkillers and water. To pee. I had every hope and intention leading up to this day to find a good boy who wanted to care for me in this way such as it is the ideal situation for someone like us (by "us" I mean the domme and sub" ) This opportunity to bond with an amazing boy won't come around again as I've never had such a need as this in all of my life. I've always been independent and I certainly didn't get sick on purpose for I never would ask a surgeon to put a needle in my back, to cut me in the center of my being and have to take the very serious albeit minimal risk that I may not walk again if any factor or step on my wonderful team of physicians should be fated to falter. I awakened hours later alone but with amazing caring medical staff looking me in the eye and asking me to trust them, to wiggle those toes, to tell them if anything at all is NOT ok. I never cried in all my life over myself first. I've been blessed to have empathy for others who needed me. So, yes, I stayed alone in hospital. I took my first steps with with two beautiful strangers. I never knew how humbled I would be to have someone catch me if I fell. I had hoped to find a boy before I ever needed to face this. I thought it would be the time when I needed a devoted companion the most and the he and I would benefit greatly from this. I won't stop searching for my boy. I want you boys to think of this next time you reach out to a domme and start playing this game of cat and mouse... Next time you fail to respond or follow through on a meet, think seriously about what may be happening on her side of these messages I came home last night.I came home and allowed my lovely family to help me up each step. To bring me drinks and To help me undress and bathe. To help me breathe through each breath of stabbing pain. I'd always known they would be there so I was always ok with that. I'm just disappointed because a domme needs a sub as much as a sub needs a domme. Nothing less will do.

7/24/2016 4:01:51 PM
It's so sad. I'm starting to acknowledge that after the biggest surgery if my life 3 days ago, I am disappointed in myself as a domme. I had a Beautiful set of family members come to take me home from the hospital. They have shown such love in so many simple tasks that I lost temporarily The ability to walk, to turn on your side, to get your own painkillers and water. I had every hope to find a good boy who wanted to care for me in this way such as it is the ideal situation for someone like us (by "us" I mean the domme and sub" This opportunity to bond with an amazing boy won't come around again as I've never had such a need as this in all of my life. I've always been independent and I certainly didn't get sick on purpose for I never would ask a surgeon to put a needle in my back, to cut me in the center of my being and have to take the very serious albeit minimal risk that I may not walk again if any factor or step on my wonderful team of physicians should be fated to falter. I awakened hours later alone but with amazing caring medical staff looking me in the eye and asking me to trust them, to wiggle those toes, to tell them if anything at all is NOT ok. I never cried in all my life ever first myself, only for others who needed me. I stayed alone in hospital. I took my first steps with with two beautiful strangers. I never knew how humbled I would be to have someone catch me if I fell. I had hoped to find a boy before I ever needed to face this. I thought it would be the time when I needed a devoted companion the most and the he and I would benefit greatly from this. I won't stop searching for my boy. I want you boys to think of this next time you reach out to a domme and start playing this game of cat and mouse... Next time you fail to respond or follow through on a meet, think seriously about what may be happening on her side of these messages I came home last night.I came home and allowed my lovely to help me up each step. To bring me drinks and To help me undress and bathe. To help me breathe through each breath of stabbing pain. I'd always known they would be there so I was always ok with that. I'm just disappointed that you weren't there.

7/17/2016 1:11:50 PM
I'm so tired of talking. I must have hundreds of conversations per day with 15-20 staff and working with a hundred or so patient appointments each day. Being an INTJ means it's possible I have exhausted my practiced extroverted behavior all day and just want to spend my home time alone or with a boy. Why is it so hard to find the perfect boy for me? Yes there is sensual play and teasing and punishments but what about the need I have to get my groceries and errands run when I'm mentally exhausted from all the careful interactions I must have at work. Where is my boy who wants to help with my home improvement projects, change the lights and clean the patio. Set my appointments for massage and pedicures and bring me my favorite dish from cheesecake factory. Or review and discard the junk in my closets? Or drive me to the beach and set up my chair and drinks? Or keep my company while hiking? The boy who lets me interrupt his studious work on a project whenever I feel like pushing him to his knees for oral service? Where is my naked house pet who can't deny me anything? Where's my pet who can do all these tiny favors so I can get through binge watching season 2 of Game of Thrones??

7/14/2016 4:45:24 AM
He gets naughty texts...he's told how to dress...he has chores. .. he listens to her and she to him. He knows she knows him and will use it to guide him. He takes punishment for his misdeeds and praise for his good service. His desire to please her drives him. Its not for everyone. Its hard work. Learning her moods. Others won't approve. He could care less. On his knees, head bowed, restrained or not; he's happy for her reign. Tug his ear, slap his face, tie him down, sit on him...he wishes for permission to explode. ..he begs and is denied. He is happy here.

7/10/2016 10:36:06 PM
You thrive when being belittled and berated for your incompetence.  It energizes you to press your mind continually searching for a way to please and impress her. Knowing you will be punished if you fail. You want to eat pussy all day. You want to let her ride you until you're squirming begging for release...which she will not Grant. You will sigh and suffer until your erection subsides. And then she will tease and torment you all over again

4/4/2016 10:14:41 PM
You need to date. You need to dance and charm and impress a lady. And someday, when it is time, if you are humble, patient ,eager and after you have shown devotion, attention to her vanilla needs, then and only then do you EARN the invitation. Invited into her home...to kneel, to crawl to beg, to play and hopefully, to never escape.

4/4/2016 5:34:18 PM
Oh so many disappointing boys...sigh Where is my adorable little sex fiend boy toy who thrills at my admonishment and craves my oh so hard to earn touch?

4/3/2016 1:04:22 AM
The way I really want it to go. You know.."it" as in the day I meet him. Not just any him but the real him. On that day and at that time I want to be minding my own domme business, standing in a crowd somewhere obviously not concerned or impressed with the trifles around me when he sees me. When he takes in my " air of aloof but comfortable in my bossy underneath but deceptively vanilla demeanor". When he feels the need, desire, aching to approach me. He will be humble and starving and sane all at once. He will want me to want him at my feet. He knows he's handsome but suddenly forgets and is doubtful I will accept. He believes he has talents to offer but can't recall them to the tip of his tongue, so overwhelmed is he by this attraction to my aura. It's not the worst day of his life but he thinks it's the last day of his life. That's how I wish, hope and dream it will be when he comes to offer himself to me as my adorer, my champion, my sex fiend, my lap dog, my consort, my butler, my true ONE

3/26/2016 10:10:37 PM
https://youtu.be/Zi3N8xBYoUw

3/21/2016 8:33:47 PM
Its been around for centuries....those who desire to serve. Those who dream of pleasing the ONE. My sub will be up in the morning to help me workout and prepare my breakfast. he will clean my home after I leave for work. he will work on his journal entry or what ever chores are needed after the daily cleaning of kitchen and bath and go to work. I will text when I am ready to leave work. I will ask him what he most looks forward to. He will meet me at my car to walk me in and unload my shopping, take my coat and work bag, put away my jewelry, clothes etc. He will prepare and serve me a meal and I will determine what other duties the night may have in store. It may be time for my foot rub or watching my favorite shows during oral service, teasing and playing with my boy - never know. My sub will enjoy this life and the private thoughts he has as he listens to friends and coworkers as they describe mundane lives will make him chuckle. He has a secret excitement, a tied up and spanked kind of life and he adores a lady

3/21/2016 8:25:28 PM
By Mistress Christianna 1. The submale must always practice traditional courtesy which men have shown Women in polite society, whether in private or public. Stand when She enters the room. Sit (or kneel) as soon as She is seated. 2. Be totally attentive: open doors, wait at table so that She begins eating first, always ask permission to leave Her presence. 3. The submale should never speak unless spoken to, or unless anticipating the needs of his Mistress. (Public or time in mixed company , sub will follow agreed upon instructions) 4. The submissive will never sit with legs spread or slouch in a way typical of untrained males. Good posture and decorum is a sign of respect. 5. The submale will never stare at a Woman without Her permission. Unless the Woman seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times. 6. When walking with his Mistress, or any Woman, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The submale should always be at least a step behind; but not too far, because he must open all doors. 7. Respect is shown by a submissive as long as he never fails to forget his submissive  role in life. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout. THE submale’s NAME 8. The submale should be given a new name by his Mistress to symbolize his submissive state. Other names may be “made up” words that sound humiliating or which are amusing or pleasing to the Mistress; for example, names typical of pet dogs or cats. THE submale’s BODY 9. A submale surrenders control to his Mistress. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. In all aspects, the Mistress controls the submale. 10. Because a submale’s purpose is to please his Mistress, more than anything else She owns, he must learn to control his response to sexual stimulation for the greater enjoyment of his Mistress. his orgasm is the only item that the submale has left to control for himself. Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. Disobedience requires punishment. 11. If the Mistress prefers simply to torment the submale and deny him release, then the submale must control himself to provide Her such pleasure. He must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Mistress humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her. 12. If the Mistress demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, the submale must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Mistress. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her. 13. In all cases, the submale must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him — his orgasm belongs to his Mistress. It is Hers to use, however she sees fit. 14. The submale should be as clean-shaven as the Mistress requires: from the top of his head to his toes, body hair should be present only if the Mistress allows it. 15. The submale may wear long hair, styled to imitate the superior styles of Women, only if the Mistress permits. 16. The submale may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a washcloth or brush, never his hands. PERSONAL PROPERTY 17. The submale is the personal property of the Mistress. his possessions are Her possessions. 18. The submissive should always be saving to purchase “big ticket” items that his Mistress wants to buy. This means the submale is always on a strict allowance, kept by his Mistress. CLOTHING 20. Feminization is training in submission. Wearing items of Feminine attire separates the submissive from and puts him outside of the world of the macho male. Wearing feminine attire doesn’t make the male like a Woman; this is impossible. 21. Standard punishment attire shall be panties of the mistresses choosing and if under severe punishment, panty hose worn under male clothing 22. Whether a woman knows what the submissive is wearing or not, feminization pushes the submissive closer to the company of women and away from the company of men. This is good for the submale, because it creates greater opportunities for him to be of help to Women, to serve them, and to model his behavior on their own superior behavior. 23. Feminine items can also be used as punishment — corsets, girdles and foundations. These should be selected by the Mistress for maximum discomfort. 24. When in home, submale should be nude or wear only as much clothing as Mistress has granted for the task at hand. 25. The submale should never buy his own clothing without the guidance of his Mistress. He should buy what pleases her, not what he likes. HEALTH & HYGIENE 26. The submissive will use only Mistress approved hygiene products: soaps, shampoos, lotions, deodorants, etc. and will be clean and properly groomed at all times. 27. When urinating, the submale will always sit on the toilet 28.  For good health, the submissive will enroll in a dance aerobics class. As an alternative, the submale will prepare his own dance aerobics routine and perform it for his Mistress for Her amusement. 29. The submale must diet as required to maintain a correct weight for his height and should drink at least six 12-ounce glasses of water each day. 30.  The submale must submit to eating only “submale food” selected by his Mistress whenever she requires it. MAID SERVICE 31. When a meal is over the submale must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes. 32. The submale must always give his Mistress the first choice of everything — She picks the section of the paper to read first, the channel on TV to watch, the restaurant to go to, the movie to see, the friends to entertain, etc.

3/6/2016 11:23:52 AM
Mine is not to tell you how to do what I want done. Mine is to want and to say my  want.Yours is to know and to DO.

5/24/2015 6:42:36 AM
Naughty greedy self centered little boys who beg me to meet them and then waste my time thinking I can trust them on day 1 and the irritation that 1 has clearly not completely read my profile makes me want to punish even more but I won't waste my time on boys who have no patience no respect for the process Of developing knowledge and rapport and no f****** follow through

3/22/2014 9:04:33 PM
“For the man, the trick in finding happiness in a D/s relationship is to understand what makes his partner happy. Their mission together is to find the dominant role which is completely within her character, to which he can submit. The key to a successful D/s relationship is to ADD the exchange of power to the dynamics of the Foundation Relationship rather than to replace it. The idea is that when he submits, he does so to her unique identity. Her domination will be different than any other he has ever read or dreamed about, since she is different than anyone else he’s ever met. Because he is submitting to the unique person she is, with her unique style, there will be no doubt it is her he desires. She is his lover, to whom he submits…not a character in leather with a whip.” The book: ‘Uniquely Rika’

1/4/2014 5:09:44 PM

Disappointed in so many subs on here you boys try so fast to jump into a sub relationship .... Skipping over the basics of any relationship....to me this feels no different than screwing someone on the first date...inappropriate and disinterested come morning after.


11/28/2013 8:37:47 PM

a terrific read

 

http://www.femaleledrelationships.com/various-stories/thoughts-of-a-submissive-man


11/13/2013 11:42:02 PM

"Please tell me you are real"... For the longest time I have been wondering what that means when I see that on others profiles....now I know. There are "subs"on here just wanting to use you to get themselves off...which is really no different than "regular" men (I recall that was always an issue in dating)


Im thinking some have been here so long they forgot what it's like to just get to know someone...I truly believe you need to build rapport and actually LIKE a person before you can play...I also feel play should be fun, hence the word "play."



I get many excited boys begging to be taken seriously. What I'm seeking is a real long term, duty filled relationship with a boy who can be publicly "that great boyfriend" and at home he is my houseboy, slut and chore whore. This is a very complex bond in which I depend on my sub to truly know my moods, needs and (vice versa), yet still function in society as a man. It is not a sex game to be played on weekends. It will take time and energy to become whatever "we" are to be.




9/22/2013 8:52:15 PM

:I don't go in for stereotype so just like I don't wear Dereon jeans, juicy couture and other silly labels I also don't think the typical photo trappings of domme are for me such as leather and ball gags (I actually want to hear a man scream and beg so why gag?...smh). I live in OC where apt rents are high and include a gym, jacuzzi, and pool but no dungeon is listed on amenities :-P.

 

I state rather plainly that I want to be with a man who isn't doing what I've always dealt with...he wants to come first (& cum first), rely on me to do everything and then play passive aggressive power games...that's what I get in "regular dating"...just recently realized it never worked since its not who I ever was...I'm naturally dominant and yet generous, I'm the boss to many people in my career, being a leader is my truth, its who I am...I'm liking the ideas that come with the "kink" But not all "BDSM" is good BDSM

 


your duties will be performed in the Uniform of my choice based on my mood- (socks and trainers, G-string/Jock/Thong or naked) for domestic chores. You may be regarded as a sex toy for my use and satisfaction in private, I'm not into public humiliation or silliness. In public I expect standards to be maintained and if they are not i may devise cruelties and denials, .exploring what it takes just enough to keep you in line.  rapport should be such that once I know how you tick...well...thats when we get to really have fun. i am no pro domme. I'm master of my own universe and May or may not deal with " bdsm systemology" i believe we need to learn as individuals together. If you wish to join my universe you must become my friend.

 

i only learned of this place after perusing www.aboutflr.com

..so that's why im here. If you wish to explore and to submit my way...I guess you'll let me know.


8/31/2013 8:48:16 PM

Beyond the desire to submit, we all differ in most every other regard. Your kinks are most likely different from mine. Something I find intensely erotic you may find at best boring or even a complete turn off. Perhaps even requiring oneself to endure and later introspect on these feelings offers a chance to truly submit mentally.

 

Uur needs, wants, desires and even fears should be communicated. Thus, it is a truly unwise dominant who labors under the false impression that one-size fits all and that every sub can be trained exactly the same way as the last. Effective training must be tailored to the specific individual. Honest and direct communication from the sub to the dominant is the only way to build trust between both.


8/29/2013 7:43:33 PM

do you need to be tied down heavily to submit your mind to her control/freedom to explore your whole body...allow her to do any pinching, pulling, slapping, biting, licking, spanking, whipping, teasing, tugging, clipping, sucking and just general toying and usage of your body for her own pleasure? can a man truly do this? what if she has no regard to which may interest you? Is there thrill in Never knowing whether you will be rewarded with permission for yourself?


8/27/2013 11:31:42 PM

"Love, infatuation, pair bonding, these are all primitive things. And I would not want it any other way. Emotions are the deepest ‘imperfection’ that humans have. They often defy logic and reason, make us say and do stupid things, even behave in an unnatural way for fear of rejection and shame. Emotion is beauty. It is pure and raw and unforgiving. If we have any connection that we can sense on a daily basis that puts us in touch with the deepest recesses of our evolution it is emotion. I do not desire to find or create the perfect partner. A submissive is not clay for me to mold. It is a living growing creature and consciousness I nurture and care for, enjoying that moment in spring when it comes into bloom. This person must not just be a compliment to me, but a contrast. If I have nothing to learn or no new perspective to enjoy what joy do I have? The Physical trappings of being defined as a dominant or a submissive can lead us astray. A perfect hell of our own creation."

 

It's in quotes because I'd like to credit the writer...if only I knew his name...


8/27/2013 12:27:39 AM
I watch a lot of Strikeback...it occurs to me that I'm turned on by the fact that these two fabulously creative amazingly dangerous smart sexy guys take all their orders from females.... and hell all three seasons are just damn good :-)

8/26/2013 12:26:43 AM
I must not have been good at dating mainly due to the expectations that I was raised with at home.... My mom taught and demanded the men in my household do the cooking and cleaning and childcare...she could berate and humiliate...I'm good at that too. I'm older now I refuse to feign interest in things that a guy likes just to try to bend him later it doesn't work... Since I've learned a few kinks I think I know what I like... I like a fully shaved/ waxed naked man giving me his hands, body, mind, skills, tongue, etc. to use as I require. There will be chores for a good sub to do, be it cleaning, organizing, working on projects, etc. I will need one who is confident and capable in his professional career for times when I simply desire conversation. I'm seeking to build a LTR with both our eyes and minds wide open. My pov on props is thus....if I utilize something common within the home as an impact tool for play/ punish/ sensory exploration....oh how much sweeter the memory when one encounters that tool again for its normal common intent. This is not to say that restraints are not to be looked forward to...I'm open. But I primarily seek the man whose physical strength and discipline give him the greater challenge....to be so big and strong...and to need my permission....that is the mental challenge I seek. To trust me and give up control...to let me command his body....that's the one I seek to build with, learn with, teach and play with.

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