I DO NOT DO THE WHOLE ONLINE/LONG DISTANCE/SKYPE DOM/SUB THING. EITHER FACE TO FACE/LOCAL OR NO.
"I put a spell on you, because you're mine….."
I am seeking right now….
First and foremost, for me to be interested, you must be intelligent and able to stimulate my mind. If you are unable to stimulate my mind, you've got no chance in hell at stimulating my body. The mental aspect of D/s is absolutely the most important part...if you do not agree and practice, please don't bother messaging me. I want to suck your mind most of all.
And one other note...just because I listed all the various kinks and things I enjoy/have done, doesn't indicate that you will or should expect to do that to me, or that I will do that to you. A real Dom or sub will understand that. And for anyone who may become my Dom, I need to be challenged, be pushed, and be hurt....and come out on the other side having made it through and served and pleased my Dom. This is why the mental aspect is so very important to me. I will expect my sub to do for me what I do for my Master, within their limits..which I will push and test. At least be eager and willing to be taught.
As a submissive. I need both sides. I need dark, sadistic, abusive…and also loving and caring. It should end with your wants catered to, and me feeling the freedom of having control taken from me. I am a strong girl. I am creative, loving, nurturing, intelligent, independent, intuitive, and strong-willed. Some Doms think that just because they call themselves 'Master of the universe, follower of the night" and dress like an executioner, that I should drop to my knees in front of them. Not me. Not me at all. I need to be pushed. I crave to be pushed and to serve. And I also need love, aftercare, and to be told I was a good girl, and to know that I fought my hardest before having no choice but to give in to a man stronger than me (I'm not talking physical strength here). Like I said in a recent blog post…sometimes a situation requires that you step up and take what you want.
Interests/hobbies
I love to cook, I do it very well. I can make just about anything, but love to make traditional Maltese and other ethnic dishes (lots of mediterranean food). I've just about perfected my Vietnamese crepe. I can kill, clean, butcher, and cook you a delicious rabbit stew in two hours.
I love music. I have eclectic tastes. I travel to see my favorite bands. I like to have that sweaty 'cleansed by fire' experience.
Amateur doctor/nurse. I love medicine, the body, and all things involved. I collect antique medical models and anatomy drawings.
I have a pretty cutting sense of humor. I like to laugh. Have a sense of humor
I love animals, especially mine and the ones that have impacted me. I believe in respect. I still like my steak blue though.
I smoke (working on this), drink, and curse like a sailor...unless told not to....I can be a perfect lady. I even know which fork to use.
i love nature. Few things get me like fresh air and the places often untouched by us filthy creatures.
I enjoy photography a lot.
I read a lot.
I speak some Maltese
I am married. There are things I could explain, but will only do so if we are getting to know each other. I have my own career, money, 401k, car, home....don't need yours. A few near death experiences can put your life and priorities into perspective.
THIS NEXT SECTION DOES NOT APPLY UNLESS YOU READ, UNDERSTAND, AND CARE ABOUT THE PREVIOUS SECTION.
I believe in this. Sanity also a requirement, I will put up with nothing less..some leeway given for trances/sadistic abuse.. I am DDF and you must be also..if you don't take care of yourself..why would I want to take care of you, or put myself in your hands. I am safe. I need D/s, like food or water; I am nobody's practice sub, but for the right man, will submit completely. Mental Bondage mind/body/soul exposure, learning to be better in my roles. Some of the things I enjoy…there are many many more. I am experienced as both a Domme and a sub. Me: 31, white female, dark brown hair, blue eyes. Submissive to a strong alpha Dom male who can take me…and I mean, take me, but fairly dominant otherwise.I love Submissive women. I generally I am just not attracted to people my parents age. Thank you, and I hope you find the fun you seek. It's just not my thing. I don't want to watch you jack off on cam. I don't do animal stuff, no weird kid stuff. I don't seek a long distance relationship. Any other questions, ask. I don't bite (that's not true).
also…fisting good. But none of that comes into play without the rest.