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DominaLumina
Hetero Female, 21, New Jersey 
DominaLumina

I’m Domina Lumina. I will answer to Lumie.

 

I am a Lifestyle Domme. What this means to Me is that dominance isn't a persona I assume, it's part of who I am. It means when I have time, I take on subs and train them, because I enjoy it.

 

YOU don't get to command ME to give you my phone number, my address, my email, my Skype, or even my Name. When and ONLY when I trust you and feel you have earned that privilege would I gift you with any of that information.

 

The two of us will get along just fine, as long as you show basic decency. Politeness is key. Even though I am young, that does not make me some stereotypical "brat" domme. I can be cute and sweet and silly, but I have a mind. I know how to use it. If you're looking for a whiny little child to flip you off and act like an airheaded doll, you've come to the wrong woman.


If I deem you worthy of serving me, I want to tear your brain apart. I want to look inside you and see all the little ticking parts, to know you better than you know yourself. And I often get what I want. I'm going to show you your proper place in this world, and help you embrace the submissive nature we both know is inside of you. 


Now, before I say anything else, I will assume you do  NOT send people random crotch shots as your way of saying "Hi" in the vanilla world. I think we can both agree that this is a wonderful tradition. Let's keep it~.


As far as titles go, you may refer to me as Ma’am, Mistress, Goddess, Miss, Domina, Time Lady, Queen Amidala, Her Imperial Condescension. You know, the basic stuff. For me, it's not the title itself that's important, but rather, what it represents. 


I do have one exception regarding this. DO NOT call me Princess. I know there’s some girls who work that title well, but I don’t like being called that. I find that this particular title is typically used to undermine the authority of a dominant woman. Princesses don't rule empires, they don't lead armies, and they're certainly not the ones in control. 

 

When you write me your initial message to me, try keep in mind that I am a human being, not a walking, talking fetish factory. This means that I am capable of complex thoughts, feelings and behaviors. If you call yourself a sub, but do not have the ability to treat a woman you're seeking to serve with respect and decency, I will question how legitimate you are. I'm sure as a functioning adult you can tell the difference between polite and impolite behavior. I know I can be quite intimidating, but it's alright~. I won't bite... hard.

 

 
Now that that's out of the way...
WHAT I WANT
  • Pets, subs and slaves that are intelligent, interesting, and find strength in their service to me. I make this distinction because all three are completely separate categories for me and I expect different things from them all.
  • For you to be clear with what you want in your first message. DON'T waste my time. If you want to serve me, tell me. If you have questions, ask them. If you want to talk a bit to see if we click, say that.
  • My ideal pet is eager to please, dedicated and adorable. They want to use their submission as a way being to be the very best they can. They may need guidance, training or reassurance, but they know that isn't a fault. A good pet wants to make me smile, and is happiest when their Mistress is pleased.
  • My perfect sub is a bit of a dork,  shares vanilla interests with me, and can go from a great conversation to a mutually fulfilling scene in the same sitting. They follow directions well, and know how to cater to my whims. They know to show me respect.
  • The best slave knows their place. They know that they aren't worthy of my time or attention. A good slave knows that their worth is based on how much I allow them to suffer for me, and is grateful for each humiliation I let them endure for my own amusement~.
WHAT I LIKE (Be into some of these, or I'm not into you at all~.)
  • Chastity Control
  • Impact Play (spanks, CBT, flogging, caning, ect.)
  • Being Pampered~ (I absolutely love getting fanart, gifts, fansigns. They're one of the quickest ways to show me that you're serious, and I appreciate every one.)
  • Humiliation/Degradation
  • Sissification
  • Pet Play (NO REAL BESTIALITY EVER!!!) I especially like puppies, kitties, ponies and bunnies.
  • Interrogation Play
  • Roleplay~
  • Bondage (especially rope bondage!)
  • Sensation Play
  • Tease and Denial
  • Begging~
WHAT I HATE (Things that'll get you deleted or blocked!)
  • Anything poop/vomit related.
  • Anything involving abusing animals or children.
  • Dom(me)s who want to top me. I have no interest in you, move on.
  • Whining about wanting real time or sending me your personal number/address when I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU.
  • Not reading my profile before messaging me.
  • Copy pasted bullshit.
  • Timewasters~.

NOTE: 
  • I am NEVER obligated to reply to your message, especially if you're rude.
  • As a test to see if you've actually bothered to read my profile, and to let me know you have the ability to follow the most basic of instructions, begin your message with the phrase "Cairo Overcoat". Failure to do so shows me that you don't care about what I have to say, and don't value my time, so I don't care about you. Not beginning your message with "Cairo Overcoat"is the same thing as telling me you want your message to be DELETED UNREAD~.
  • DON'T use yahoo or teamviewer. Mention either and I'll laugh at you while I'm deleting your message.
  • I'm not on 24/7, if you send me whiny bullshit because I didn't reply to your message in three minutes, I will delete and/or block you. 


 

 

5/2/2022 12:13:29 PM: Note for anyone reading my profile in teh modern tiemz: I'm not 21, I'm 27. I'm not straight, I am pan. This is not reflected in my current profile because of this site's chronic disability to approve profiles once you edit them anymore, as you are all probably aware. Thank u for coming to my TedTalk that is all.

10/11/2017 6:43:04 PM: One of my play partners is going to be back in the state in a few weeks and he's letting me flog him and I am sooooo pumped <3And a new sub of mine miiiight be buying me fetish gear tonight when he gets off work. I reeeeally want new handcuffs! Ugh. I'm bored right now, so I just turned on my line (on NF under Lumina Litely) it'll only be on until I go out later, so message me here for a direct link, or just call, if you're interested in chatting or a scene~.

3/9/2017 8:27:51 PM: I've been super stressed lately. Debating opening up my phone lines over the weekend to let off some steam... message me if you're curious or interested

10/20/2016 8:42:26 PM: Honestly feeling very freaking sadistic tonight.Like, incredibly so. Just turned my listing on again.You don't haaave to be really into pain to call rn, but if I can get at least one person with liiike, a metric ton of clothes pins, or ice, that'd be reeeeally great~.And in the future, you can take my listing being on as permission to call, babes. As cute as the whole asking first thing is... *yawn*

10/19/2016 6:02:57 PM: Turned on my listing for the first time yesterday, already got my first handful of calls, but no one brave enough to leave any feedback yet~.Tonight I'm really craving either an intense impact play/cbt session... preferably with edging and a cum denial, or to get my first 'forced' femme call. Mayyybe both at once.If that sounds up your alley, either message me for a link to my listing, or find it on NF yourself. Probably going to leave my line open tonight until 1/2 AM EST~. And I'd prefer someone get that done sooner rather than later.

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