To be perfectly honest, I am not sure exactly what it is I am looking for. I know it is not "an owner", as I am a sub and not a slave. I think I am reasonably intelligent and I can keep up my end of a conversation. I think friends are at least as important as partners so I want my partners/Doms/whatever to be friends first and foremost. I am poly and I am not really interested in monogamy at the moment. Poly seems to be working well for me. At the same time, I am not interested in purely sexual encounters and please, if you are cheating or wondering if I will meet you on some far away place, move along. I like my mates honest and reasonably local. I am active in the kink community and I prefer by far that you be willing to be involved as well. What I dislike most about these "profile" things is that they sound easily get to sound like a laundry list of requirements. Aside from being a sometimes hard-playing sub and all around pervert, I am a cook and a cat lover, an appreciator of art and theatre and music and monster trucks. I like someone who can take control of me in the bedroom and have an intelligent conversation with me in the living room (or vice versa!). How does anyone get at who they are and what they want in a profile? I guess we just have to talk to find that out.
