I have recently met someone who has opened my eyes to the AB/DL lifestyle. While I know very little what all of this entails, the AB part of it does peek my curiousity.
So while exploring more about AB/DL, I have found more about babygirls or "littles." What I have learned about babygirls, seems to fit me perfectly. Again, I don't know much about it, but I am curious.
As for what I am looking for ....
First and foremost, HONESTY. You HAVE to be honest with me at all times, NO MATTER WHAT. As I will always be honest with you.
Communication: I have to be able to talk to the One I submit to. If I feel I can't come to You and tell You anything, no matter how little or stupid it may seem to You, we won't last.
I'm not going to sit here and say I'm easy to handle, because I'm not. I have trust issues and require more patience than most have.
While most of the time I am pretty independant, I am at times very needy, emotional, irrational, whiny, and/or childish. I need someOne who will be ok with that and help me through those times.
I require a very strong Dom who is secure in themselves and knows how to handle a "strong willed" babygirl/submissive.
I want someOne who will allow me to explore, guide me when I need it, but will stand back and let me fall flat on my face too. One who will pick me up when I fall flat on my face and hold me and reassure me.
As stated above, I know very little about the AB and BG lifestyle. So naturally I would need someOne who is experienced and can teach me. You MUST have patience and understanding. I don't always pick things up very fast, and I am very inquisitive by nature. I have to know WHY. "Because I said so" is not an answer.
I am a BBW. You have an issue with that, move on. I don't need nor want Your criticism or comments.
If You are married or are in ANY type of relationship, move on. I do NOT play well with others.
If You are seeking phone/cam/online play only, move on. I am not the one You are seeking. While I will talk on the phone (hello, I am a female after all), I do not want a phone/online thing only. No, that does NOT mean I want to move in with you tomorrow. Or even next week. It means I will accept online/phone for a certain amount of time, but then will expect it to move to the next level.
If You live outside the US, move on. I will NOT move to a different country.
I am NOT willing to relocate to ANYWHERE at this time. That may change in the future, but for now, it stands.
If you are younger than me, move on. I want a Daddy, and if You are younger than me, kinda makes that difficult.
I prefer someone who is "around" my age. If you are more than 20-25 years older than me, we probably won't be a very good fit.
I am not new to the D/s lifestyle.
If what I have posted sounds like you, feel free to message me.
I look forward to hearing from You.