Who am I?   I can give you a short synopsis.  That's really all they allow room for.  I like baseball.  I grew up playing it as a young kid and I haven't stopped.  I may have to carry the glove to my grave.  There is just something about it but I love.

I also like music.  I started on the violin at the tender age of seven and became quite good.  As a teenager, I took up the bass violin, and electric bass, and of course the guitar.  I even have a Casio organ, sitting around the house. I even have a flute, which I took up for a while, but gave up rather quickly.

I also like bondage.  I experimented with rope by tying myself up at the age of five. I had an old Mexican bullwhip that I used to use when I was about 10. Little did I know that they can actually be used on people. :D  The things kids will do on a farm. In my 20s, and in my 30s, my girlfriends were always submissive. I didn't know that it was called that at the time.  I just knew that I liked spanking and bondage. And I still didn't have a concept that this was not normal. I just thought it was natural.  I really didn't know until my 40s, that there was an actual scene.  I've been growing and learning from then on.

Growing up on a farm, I always had more animal friends than people. And I was always able to read them much more clearly.  I always have a rather high opinion of people.   When I first meet them, I give them a break.

I am much more of a glass half full person now than in my teens and 20’s. It was because of normal teenage angst and broken dreams, a tour in the Army, and a wonderful bout with alcohol.  Towards the end of my 20s and early 30s, I straightened out my act, went back to school and got my degree. I certainly have different dreams now.  In the ideal would be a farm near the water, but that may never happen. Mostly what I seek is finding the inner peace and happiness, and having a lot of fun along the way.

Best new negotiation line:

Any last requests?

I don't deliver pain.
I deliver intense stimulation.

Best fortune cookie saying:

Wisdom is gained through experience, not age

Who I am and who you perceive me to be may not be the same thing.

I am pretty happy with who I am.

I only wish you could be happy with who I am.

If you want resistance, try and change me into something I am not.