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I believe in order to give your self to someone, to submit to someone, to really let go, there needs to be trust, honesty, love, respect, consistency and communication.

To submit to another, one must know themselves and trust themselves, as well as trust the one that they submit to. You must find an initial connection, build a trust and have a loving relationship.
You must feel safe and secure in your environment.

I'm hoping to find a real connection with someone that I can trust enough, and feel safe enough with to completely give myself, in every aspect of my life.

I want to be taken to that place where reason and thought disappears, where the world folds up flat and spins away into its own corner and there's nothing left but what I'm feeling!

I believe in order to get there, to that place, is to have another make you feel safe, wanted, loved and respected. To protect you, be honest and open, to trust them and what they say and to believe they are telling you the truth not only by their words but by their actions.
I don't think you can submit to someone who does not value, honor and respect you.

My submission is a gift that I do not give lightly. It is not for the taking but for me to willing give it to the one who honors and cherishes me who is open and honest who makes me feel alive and worthy to be his.