I NEVER had a bdsm relationship/marriage before. I am more the traditional type. I did a lot of websurfing about this lifestyle. There is so much that I do not know about it. But, I am more into the bondage type and traditional lifestyle. I am a BBW, not over 200lbs or 92kg. I do not have any children but would love to have someday.

Please do not mind who I am seeking. I prefer an older man that is 100% available and Single, Divorced, or Widowed man that is unattached and patient since I never tried this before and I want to live this lifestyle. I do not seek a one time fling. Please I beg not to expect sex on the first few dates of meeting until we know each other. I do not and will not do that until I know you want something long-term, preferably and definately wanting it a life-lasting relationship leading to marriage.

I do not have physical baggage. Yes, I been hurt a number of times in my past but all due to men having a hidden agenda in getting with me. I want a real honest man.

What else am I looking for? Physically I prefer a man that is BLACK, VERY DARK IN COMPLEXION. I prefer a Caribbean or African male. I do not care about body size. You could be fat or slim or medium built. A man looks good in all body sizes. I want one that is older than me of course. Please be over 33 years of age. I like the whole entire traditional household and I had this desirable Bondage lifestyle been my curiosity since I was in my early adult years. I like the BD part of BDSM. That is Bondage and Domination. I am NOT into the Sado and M part.

Many of those interests that I had I have yet to try with a man. I have been curious and willing to try. Those ones are usually the ones that I tolerate, like, love it, etc... I am talking about the BDSM part.