I am retired.  I adore strong men, music that moves my soul, driving fast, passion, laughing, making family and friends happy. After being married many (& many & many....) yrs, I recently went through a very expensive and unpleasant divorce.  Hell I'm the only woman I know that's paid alimony! lol For many of the latter yrs of my marriage I was living without sexual fulfillment.  I refuse to live that way any longer.  I am more intune with the B & D portions of BDSM, though a  little erotic pain can be titalating.  My new partner is not a Dom but he has interests in the education of all things dominate as his main desire is for my happiness and fullfillment.  I am a handful, and can be quite willful at times, but I long to bring pleasure and to be pleased. I am not into humilation, yours nor mine.  I have to respect my Dom.  Are you respectable?  If you are a discreet, respected  Dom, and think you might handle my situation, as well as me ::smiling::, then by all means contact me.