I didn't choose this way, off the beaten path, it chose me.
But I embrace and understand it now.  

I don't believe in roles or scenes, I am sadistic in my soul,

but I understand the difference between fantasy an reality . . .

is courage.

The courage to surrender to the will of another is the ultimate gift of respect an trust, given through deference, rather than an act of one betraying their own humanity.

While most of Doms talk about a slaves past, their youth, their look, and the die-hards would claim a slave is only worth the pleasure they provide.

Most take pleasure by restraints, chains, ropes, cuffs and whips.  

Pleasure taken like that is not a gift, its just kinky sex. 

Domination begins in the will of the Dom, not in the chains, ropes or even the consequences.   The ropes, chains, cage are all symbolic of the inner grasp a Master has over their slave.

Those things don't have to exist between a Master an slave for a true slave to feel bound by the will of their Master.    

Once you become completely compelled to obey . . not by force or threat of consequences, but by a relationship that nurtures devotion and commitment to a shared vision, the will of your Master. . . . .  You become worth the sum of your Master.

You may not have chosen this way, off the beaten path, but I can embrace you and journey with you . . . to understanding.