I seek a relationship in which I fulfill all of my lady's fantasies and she fulfills mine. Sounds pretty simple, right? My ultimate goal is to find a woman in a lifelong relationship (marriage, possibly kids), who compliments me, kinkwise, and shares my vision of a happy future. She, like me, must be kind, compassionate, funny, sensitive, an introspective extrovert, successful and have disdain for apathy. She, like me, must also be aggressive, nasty and up for anything, anytime, anywhere. I get most turned on when my partner is absolutely enjoying everything that's happening. The kind of sex that comes only from knowing my partner so well that, even though we have a safe word, we don't actually need one. The kind of sex that leaves us both sweaty and exhausted. The kind of sex that makes the neighbors need a cigarette and a priest.

Until I find this woman, however, sky's the limit as far as playing is concerned.

I've played saxophone almost all my life, as well as most other woodwinds and latin hand percussion. I traveled all over the place with touring bands when I was younger, but have had a steady gig at a local circus/theater for the past nine years. My degree from UCLA is in Ethnomusicology, which is, in essence, anthropology of music, so if you want to know about the xylophone traditions of the southern/eastern African countries, I'm your man:-)

I don't like to hate things, but these are a few of the things I really don't like. Everybody who's driving in front of me, apathy, people who make other people feel like shit just cuz (unless that's the game we're playing), Highland Scotch, arguing, hipster dudes with unkept facial hair in skinny jeans who smell like they just fucked a bum, people who use their kids as shields for their political bullshit or cause, and boring sex.

I really love old stuff; clothes, style, cars, music, gentlemanly ways, ladylike ways, history, furniture and sayings. I also love sports and this,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EB2aVzmPxxM.

Nobody would know that I'm a kinkster unless the subject came up in conversation, which it often does. I treat people with respect. I treat strangers like I've known them my whole life. I'll be amazing to you until you give me a reason not to.