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Hetero Male Dominant, 49,  Cambridge, Ohio
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Yes Im a Hermit, in part by need in part by choice.

Im currently in mourning, my girl passed this day 03132019. So If I dont reply, Ive gone up the mountain again, and pulled the boulder closed behind me.

So why am I here? Coming down the mountain both to learn and to share what I know with others. I have a wonderful girl in my life, so when I talk about meeting for tea, thats not code. I really want to frakking meet for tea!



Also, despite being a Hermit, I do keep up somewhat on groups in Ohio. So if you want contact ination and have no luck, drop me a line and Ill see what I can find.



There are two possible ways this card can be interpreted


First, the need to withdraw from society to become comfortable with himself.
Second, the return from isolation to share knowledge with others.

Right now, Im the former.



Policeman A hermit eh? Then whys your table set for four?

Groucho Thats nothing. My alarm clock is set for eight.



Please feel free to drop me a line, I cant guarantee Ill reply, but if I find you interesting I will.



Hermits United. We meet up every 10 years, swap stories about caves. Its good fun. For a Hermit.

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 Hermit

 Dominant Male

 Cambridge 

 Ohio

 6' 4"

 390 lbs

 49

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 02/24/04

 12/08/21

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Massage (Getting)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Loves:

 Museums

 Renaissance Faires (Expert)

 Walking

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops

 Gags

 Knife Play

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Objectification (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Tickling

 Science Fiction

 Photography (Beginner)

 History

 Writing

 Heavy Metal Music

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Movies

 SCA

 Travel

 Volunteerism

 Hiking

 Martial Arts

 Breast Play

 Cages (Beginner)

 Chastity

 Collars

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling

 Hoods (Beginner)

 Hypnosis

 Leashes

 Masks (On Partner)

 Munches

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Spanking

 Speech Restrictions

 Uniforms

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Vibrators

 Wax play

 Arcade Games (Beginner)

 Card Games (Beginner)

 Cartoons

 Chess (Beginner)

 Historical Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Simulation Games

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Drawing

 Investing (Beginner)

 Meditation (Beginner)

 Online Auctions

 Painting

 Archaeology

 Blogging

 Conservative Politics

 Intellectual Discourse

 Libertarian Politics

 Nanotechnology

 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorianism

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Blues

 Eighties Music

 Funk

 Industrial Music

 Jazz

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 R&B

 Reggae

 Rock Music

 Christianity

 Judaism

 Bowling

 Darts (Beginner)

 Kick Boxing

 Tolerates:

 Beachcombing

 Bird Watching

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera

 Begging

 Body Worship

 Exhibitionism

 Fisting

 Humiliation

 Role Playing

 Board Games

 Horror Movies

 MMORPGs

 Online RPGs

 Sitcoms

 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Occultism

 Political Activism

 Psychology

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Old Guard

 Country Music

 Folk Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Opera Music

 Operetta

 Punk Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Agnosticism

 Buddhism

 Catholicism

 Druidism

 Feng Shui

 Hinduism

 Kabbalah

 Mormonism

 Neo-Paganism

 Reiki

 Taoism

 Wicca

 Auto Racing

 Curious About:

 Corsets

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Maid/Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Shibari

 Suspension

 Theatrical Scenes

 Whips (Beginner)

 Body Art (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Polyamory

 Dislikes:

 Clubbing

 Shopping

 Running

 Gas Masks

 Housework Service (Beginner)

 Public Play

 Liberal Politics

 EMO Music

 Atheism

 Islam

 Scientology

 Baseball

 Hates:

 Bar Hopping

 Raves

 Diapers

 Romance Novels

 Cuckolding

 Goth Lifestyle

 Hip Hop Music

 Pop Music

 Rap

 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

 Watersports

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Journal Entries:
11/27/2021 4:14:37 PM

Thanksgiving went well.  lots of leftovers.


11/24/2021 12:15:05 PM

Hope this gets approved soon.

 

Tomorrow will be our first 'real' Thanksgiving in This Olde Hermitage.  Last year she was recovering from surgery and pretty out of it. It will be us and the furkids.

 

That said, if anyone needs to not feel alone, please drop me a line.  I'll try to answer.  I'm thankful to have found someone, and can share the love.


11/16/2021 7:42:32 AM

Communication is important.  My girl and I had a sit down and talk yesterday to clear the air, did us both good.  


11/14/2021 6:10:41 PM

Survived a surprise birthday party last night.  Birthday is this coming week.  No kink, but nice to see friends who've I've not seen in a year


11/12/2021 5:42:21 AM

And I'm in apporoval heck for finally changing to Cambridge.  OH well


11/11/2021 11:31:17 AM

Hey!  Journals are back!

Well I was planning to do a revamp of the profile for my birthday, but figure I'll do a brief update here.

 

I have a lovely girl, and we're in Cambridge, Ohio.  always up for chat still.


4/10/2018 3:01:24 PM
23 staples holding my leg together, now out. In the cast for another month though. Times like this, we need a housekeeping slave.

4/3/2018 7:12:54 AM
Well March ended on a sorrowful note. My jewel is fighting melanoma, it's aggressive and we're still finding the extent of it. Not to be outdone, I fell and shredded the tendons connecting my right quad to my knee, so I'm down 4-6 weeks, minimum. So there's your monthly update.

3/12/2018 7:03:17 PM
Always amused as "height/weight proportionate" in profiles. You know,1:1 is a proportion...

12/28/2017 4:43:46 AM
How to know you're old.

You see a profile that starts, "Hi, I'm Candy." and you immediately think "Of course you are," in a gravelly voice...

... Then realize she'd have no idea what you're talking about.

12/25/2017 7:22:56 AM
Merry Christmas to all.

10/11/2017 10:58:47 AM
My jewel showed me some of the trash she gets in her inbox.  Really, do guys think intelligent women like that kind of mail?

9/10/2017 6:16:52 PM
"Well the storm will be hitting Naples."

"Huh, my mom's ex-wife lives in Naples."

"Well she should be fine."

"I hope not!  She hurt my mom, and I'm vindictive."

9/5/2017 6:42:25 AM
Labor Day: The day reserved for all the housework you don't get to other 364 days...

8/28/2017 10:54:45 AM
Everyone in the path of Harvey, stay safe.

8/9/2017 5:03:00 PM
Funny after lots of talking this weekend, I've been reminded I miss mentoring and teaching.

8/1/2017 12:09:48 PM
Interesting... no new profiles for the past three days.

7/12/2017 5:12:11 AM
For those who've known me a while, I lost a wonderful woman seven years ago.  I laid her ashes to rest while I was in Florida.  It was what she wanted, and I was ready to finally let go.  She taught me to see what was in front of me and embrace it, holding on tightly.

RIP Donna.

6/23/2017 8:32:35 AM
So, the plan is still to head to Florida a week from tomorrow.  Anyone want visitors?

3/27/2017 9:21:58 AM
Done.  Advising all occupants of the Hermitage to clear the blast radius.

3/2/2017 11:23:47 AM
Ok good deed done for the day.

1/9/2017 9:06:59 AM
Ok amusing profile of the day.

When a profile starts with "I believe as a slave, no is not in my vocabulary" and ends with "NO MEN" I have to chuckle.

Sweetie, I understand your dream is accepting a collar is the last decision you want to make, but it's pretty clear 'no' is in your vocabulary.

12/25/2016 6:25:14 AM
Happy Christmas from the Hermit and his family

11/8/2016 6:21:19 AM
That amusing moment when you come across a journal entry of someone who is still whining six months later...

11/2/2016 12:24:11 PM
Pulls in the "room available" shingle.

9/30/2016 5:56:19 AM
Weather is crappy today, spirits are up though

9/26/2016 4:50:18 AM
Well it's official.

My girl and I are engaged.  Watch this space...

9/9/2016 11:05:40 AM

Neighbor woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't rouse her daughter out of bed to join her in insomniac pokemon hunting.  So she took her daughter's phone and was hunting with a phone in each hand.

She proudly boasted she was 'Double fisting pokemon."

"You keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means."


8/9/2016 9:54:51 AM
Ok the new crop of 'slaves with trust funds' is amusing  It's like the Congo 'relocate me' scam and the 'Nigerian Prince' scam had a love child...

6/8/2016 9:34:45 AM
So... anyone hitting the big convention in Columbus next weekend?

6/6/2016 12:00:10 PM
That moment when you find the person who used you and you threw out of your life is still bitter and lost, and you've moved on

5/29/2016 8:51:09 PM
n Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

4/25/2016 9:09:11 AM
Wow, I get rather blunt when I am exhausted.

4/12/2016 3:16:41 PM
Today's moment of zen...

Those who say they're 'native American' on here often aren't a) native nor b) American.

4/1/2016 11:49:05 AM
Well almost made it a year at the new job.  *Crosses fingers*

3/15/2016 1:30:16 PM
Pie yesterday, Caesar Salad today... March isn't good for the diet.

2/16/2016 7:56:56 AM
Life would be easier if people were honest with themselves and each other.

2/14/2016 10:56:59 AM
My girl isn't feeling too well, so this Valentines day I'm letting her sleep while I work around the office.

Sorry folks, nothing kinky to report, it's quiet in the Hermitage. :-)

12/25/2015 2:04:29 PM
Merry Christmas from the Hermitage!

11/12/2015 5:57:49 PM
Gods, we need a housekeeper.

11/4/2015 1:42:43 PM
My unicorn died.

10/31/2015 12:10:10 PM
Happy Birthday Harry Dresden!

7/5/2015 9:50:46 AM
I am blessed with a family I love.  Can you have a full Hermitage?

5/31/2015 6:20:40 AM
Mini-rant alert. Maybe it is that I'm becoming a grumpy old man, but how can you decide you're a "little" and be under 21? Hell's Bells, you're barely a "big"! Try it, you might like it! We now return you to your regularly scheduled perverts. ;-)

5/25/2015 8:07:44 AM
Remember the reason for today.  It's not sales and cookouts.

5/1/2015 6:08:13 AM
And back to work Monday.

4/14/2015 9:30:22 PM
Well that was unexpected...

4/3/2015 8:00:56 PM
Why is the right thing never the easy one?

4/2/2015 5:54:58 PM
Actually wrote a few paragraphs of fiction today.  Felt good.

3/5/2015 7:07:36 PM
Tonight's fun fact. When you're down, listening to the music you flogged your ex to does not make you feel better.

2/22/2015 6:14:47 PM
Have to love cowards who see honesty as 'playing games' throw insults and then block you.

Ah for mature conversation.

2/12/2015 6:51:34 AM
The past and present wilt — I have fill'd them, emptied them, And proceed to fill my next fold of the future. Listener up there! what have you to confide to me? Look in my face while I snuff the sidle of evening, (Talk honestly, no one else hears you, and I stay only a minute longer.) Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.) I concentrate toward them that are nigh, I wait on the door-slab. Who has done his day's work? who will soonest be through with his supper? Who wishes to walk with me? Will you speak before I am gone? will you prove already too late? -Walt Whitman "Song of myself"

2/2/2015 10:42:50 AM
Very hard to hunt for a job when you already have one.


12/3/2014 6:01:50 AM
Today is the birthday of an enigmatic girl who worked to protect me from myself. Happy birthday Stephanie, wherever you may be.

11/19/2014 3:32:13 PM
Another year older.

11/9/2014 4:22:38 AM
"Please be height/weight proportionate" um... people *do* realize that 1:1 is a proportion, right?

11/5/2014 5:43:09 PM
Been a few stressful days here at the Hermitage.

10/12/2014 4:25:48 PM
Finishing up watching Black Sails.

Awesome series, already loved the music

9/29/2014 4:15:13 AM
Today's thought.

Can you register your puppy girl as your service dog?

9/27/2014 7:55:20 PM
"Deleted unread" always saddens me, even when I know it's the likely conclusion.  I make an effort with every mail I sent out to be personal and polite. :-(

9/26/2014 6:21:53 PM
Likely need to revise my profile soon.  Finding new confidence and drive in life.

9/25/2014 5:46:01 PM
Why are people surprised when I take them at their word?

9/24/2014 4:54:14 PM
I've made a commitment to go riding a horse.  Not what I'd prefer to be riding in the woods...

9/23/2014 6:16:18 PM
So, continuing my journal a day pledge.  Shouldn't we who practice consensual non-consent be some of the loudest opponents of Human Trafficking?

9/22/2014 6:26:16 PM
D/s is better than management.  While both have people who (should) do as their told, you can't beat the subordinates at work when they don't.

;-)

9/9/2014 7:00:53 AM
Fun fact to learn... When the kinky self styled heretic Hermit has a stronger moral code than the clergy in the family...

9/5/2014 11:46:05 AM
Home safe after my trip. Here's to DSMdoll, slavemary and delicious8, three awesome women I had the pleasure of meeting. I don't know if there's a single master out there worth their while, let alone one for each of them.

And to serviceebony725, the amazing woman I've yet to meet.  I still feel a heel I ran out of time on my trip.

8/28/2014 4:33:40 PM
Well I made it to Florida, hoping to meet some more lifestyles, my delayed meeting in Chattanooga was worth the trip!

8/21/2014 6:17:36 AM
I look at these fake profiles with phone numbers in them and chuckle.  The evil part of me wants to set up one with a phone number to a sheriff's department, and then see how many people call it...

8/1/2014 4:19:58 PM
Back to job hunting.

Oh, and, "I am Groot."

7/18/2014 5:28:03 PM
Well, G_d willing and the company don't fold... I start work Monday.

7/9/2014 9:17:30 AM
Flash fact:  If you're interested in someone, insulting his dog is a good way to end any interest.

7/8/2014 10:40:10 AM
Question to ponder on households...

Should the Dominant be able to provide for the house on his own?  Or should the sub/slave expect to work outside the home.

My ideal is that I am able to cover the House, so that I can choose if my girl works or not.  Wondering what others think.

7/1/2014 1:35:11 PM
Well, I'm back.

4/23/2014 5:21:15 PM

Yeah, another rough night tonight. 


3/25/2014 3:19:27 PM

And it's snowing again.  Welcome to Ohio!


3/22/2014 5:37:16 AM
Off to Cincinnati!

3/20/2014 5:35:50 PM

Feeling Lonely tonight


3/20/2014 5:13:57 AM
Never understood the need to pretend you're something you're not when looking for a partner, Dom or Sub. I mean hells, you want to spend time with them, don't you think they're going to figure it out?

3/18/2014 4:55:08 AM
Back to no support from management at work. *sigh* Well, at least I know to put my back against the wall.

3/17/2014 8:57:46 AM
Just to clarify. I'm still looking for friends and conversation. Nothing has changed with those I'm talking with. Just don't want to imply I am looking to collar anyone new.

3/10/2014 11:18:41 AM
Ugh, I need updated photos

2/24/2014 2:57:10 PM

Ok, who broke CM?


1/26/2014 12:23:06 PM

Ah, reminded today why etiquette is a lost art.

 

Accidentally clicked on a slave's profile who wasn't looking for men.  So I sent a letter of apology.  For my efforts at being courteous I get a insulting e-mail in return.

 

Saddens me.


1/15/2014 1:08:03 PM

Why is it being open and honest leads simply to betrayal.


1/7/2014 5:50:15 AM

My New Year's resolution.  To be more punctu- Damnit.


12/25/2013 10:00:46 AM

Merry Christmas from the Hermitage!


12/16/2013 3:17:43 PM

Added a Christmas photo, enjoy!


12/11/2013 7:22:23 AM

Gods, I need someone to massage my shoulder and neck. Really flaring up today.


12/9/2013 5:31:35 AM

Just had to block my first pest in several years of being here. Hint. If my orientation is straight, no I don't want a sissy boy no matter how many times you message me.


12/1/2013 4:07:18 PM

I see some women posting a love of the British Broadcasting Corporation.  I don't get it.  I mean I know Doctor Who is cool and all, but worship?  And is there a major Jeremy Clarkson Fetish I don't know about?

 

Does BBCAmerica have the same following?  What about Skynews?

 

 

;-)


11/28/2013 7:26:31 PM

Happy Thankgiving!


11/24/2013 9:01:46 AM

Safe on the west coast of Florida. Who wants to meet for coffee?


11/22/2013 6:01:17 PM

Heading to Florida tomorrow.  Wish me luck


11/20/2013 4:00:46 AM

Happy birthday to me. Anyone want to let me unwrap them?


10/8/2013 10:15:44 AM

Ok so I'm old fashioned. I don't understand frauds on here. Nigerian scammers are one thing, but why be a guy pretending to be a girl or something? Are you so pathetic that you can't be honest when you talk to someone?


10/4/2013 6:21:07 AM

Funny typo of the day.  I mistyped collarme as corralme.  So.. would corralme be the site dedicated to pony play?


10/3/2013 7:23:11 AM

Home safe, back in Ohio


9/30/2013 3:34:42 PM

Frak Yes!  For any BSG fans on this site, I just ordered the complete Caprica series soundtrack.


9/29/2013 12:33:11 PM

Already feeling homesick can't wait to be on the road Wednesday and home Thursday.


9/26/2013 8:56:48 AM

So, maybe I'm old fashioned, but when I see an owned sub/slave say she was looking for a new Master, my first thought is that honour would demand asking for release before looking for a new owner.


9/22/2013 6:35:01 PM

Safe in Georgia, on my way to Florida.


9/16/2013 5:57:21 AM

Fun fact. Match.com is as infested with fakes as collarme. At least you read and chat for free on CM


9/11/2013 5:19:19 AM

Never forget


9/10/2013 10:09:46 AM

Am I the only one who is amused when a clearly fake profile says,"Fakes stay away!" Do they really end up trying to scam each other so much they need the disclaimer?"


9/6/2013 8:44:12 AM

We'll that's annoying. Wanted to talk to someone and she replied she couldn't find my profile and blocked me. So I can't tell her to search for Hermit and it comes right up.


8/25/2013 6:38:58 PM
Do I dare embrace hope?

8/8/2013 10:20:28 AM
Yeah, more fool me for coming back into the world.

8/5/2013 11:47:32 AM

Home from dropping off my amethyst.  Good weekend, just can't wait to have her here for good.


8/1/2013 4:05:07 PM

this time tomorrow, my girl should be where she belongs.  With me.


7/12/2013 7:13:52 AM
Funny story, my girl was out dress hunting and some woman looked at her and said, "look at that girl! She's pregnant, and wearing a dog collar!" Amethyst turned to her friend and said, "look at that woman, she's wearing a pearl necklace, and a T-shirt" I love my girl.

7/4/2013 5:28:26 PM

Spend last night today with my little amethyst.  Lots of work to do for both of us.  Thank G_d for sending her to me.  Even if it seem we build backwards.


6/30/2013 5:38:07 PM

Who has two thumbs and a new slave to train as his own? 

 

<-- This Guy!


6/27/2013 6:18:34 AM
How to explain having a slave young enough to be your daughter to your vanilla family. 1) Well mom, you wanted grandkids, so I found one.

6/17/2013 4:07:46 PM

A tired Hermit is a depressed Hermit.  anyone want to cheer me up?


5/26/2013 4:42:49 PM

Why do we say "Happy Memorial Day?"

 

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
      Between the crosses, row on row,
   That mark our place; and in the sky
   The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
   Loved and were loved, and now we lie
         In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
   The torch; be yours to hold it high.
   If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
         In Flanders fields.


5/16/2013 4:56:11 AM

I've made a few friends on here over the years who, due to being incompatible for various reasons remain "just friends"' I want to take a moment to thank them and say of course they're not "just" anything.


5/5/2013 11:34:53 AM

Saw Iron Man 3. I think they shouldn't have renamed the War Machine 'Iron Patriot'.  I think the Jobbed Machine would have been more accurate.


4/19/2013 7:20:02 PM

Am I the only one who doesn't understand the 'married but cheating' profiles?  I'm not talking about open relationships, or cuckolding.  I'm talking "I swore an oath to someone as husband and wife, but that's inconvenient now..." profiles.

 

Maybe I'm just old fashioned.


3/31/2013 3:55:14 PM

He is Risen!


1/11/2013 10:01:20 AM
Irony. Sub: People keep saying I'm a fake and liar! No one will talk to me. Me: Well I'd like to talk with you. Sub: Not interested.

12/25/2012 8:02:50 AM

From the Hermitage
To my Christian friends, Merry Christmas
To my Jewish friends, Happy Chanuka
To my Wiccan friends, Joyful Yule
To my Athiest friends, Good Luck. :-)


12/6/2012 5:45:23 PM

There's a shortage of perfect breasts in this world. t'would be a pity to damage yours.


11/19/2012 6:55:48 AM

Happy birthday to me.

 

Anyone local want me to unwrap them? ;-)


11/11/2012 11:28:02 AM

Shiny!  Watching the Firefly marathon.


10/26/2012 4:34:15 PM

One step forward, two back *sigh*  At least I'm still employed.


10/22/2012 6:13:13 PM

Well a Hermit and his dog.  Dog is doped up on cortozone and antibiotics, Hermit is poorer.


10/22/2012 11:11:26 AM
Ok, promise to self, a week of journal entries! Have to take the dog to the vet tonight, he's been gnawing. If I had a girl to care for... at least she wouldn't chew.

9/29/2012 11:02:13 AM
Trust in the Hermit. The Hermit is good.

9/3/2012 4:09:01 PM

My cousins and aunt are reading "50 Shades of Grey."  Irony is they'd freak if they knew I'd done the things they're afraid to imagine...


8/11/2012 7:30:34 PM

This kind of love is hard to find
I never got to you by being kind
If I'm the one to throw you overboard
At least I showed you how to swim for shore

When you're down is where you'll know yourself
Then if you're drown there's nothing else
When you're lost you need to find yourself
Then you'll find out that there's no one else


6/10/2012 2:02:07 PM
Guess what that makes us? Big Damn Heroes, sir. Ain't we just.

5/31/2012 5:48:57 AM
Took my dog to the spa (groomers) last night. A friend said she wanted to go to the spa. I told her "if you lived with me, ran around all day in nothing but a collar, and shared my bed, I'd pay for you to go to the spa too."

5/28/2012 3:23:20 PM

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.


5/18/2012 8:43:27 PM
Home. Home again. I like to be here, when I can. When I come home cold and tired. It's good to warm ny bones beside the fire.

5/13/2012 5:27:59 AM

Heading out, sure I'm forgetting something.  Stupid work trip.


5/7/2012 6:08:01 PM

Ok,

 

Had to log into CM again, and the profile on the 'front page' was allegedly a male Dom.  I say allegedly, because it's clear 'his' profile photo was nicked from a Calvin Klein ad. 

 

Really?  I may be an ogre, but at least you see me in my profile.  What kind of 'Dom' puts an underwear model up?


4/27/2012 8:08:38 PM

New glasses, I can clearly now.


4/22/2012 4:33:37 PM

Ok, just wanted to give a 'shout out' to asianslavemeat4u.  I got a brief but very nice 'no thank you' e-mail from her.  Courtesy.  How rare anymore.

 

Course I'd rather not have been turned down, but credit where it's due. ;-)


4/22/2012 12:42:38 PM

Ok, just watched the season finale of Body of Proof.  bound and gagged Dana Delany, yum.


4/17/2012 7:22:46 PM
Interesting day today.

4/16/2012 3:49:59 AM
I don't know if I should be amused or sad when I'm told I'm "too polite to be a real Master."

3/30/2012 7:55:24 AM
So I got in trouble for being politically incorrect at work. Sorry folks, using the term "whippingç boy" isn't race play. Get a thicker skin, frakkers.

3/24/2012 6:55:37 PM

And now we begin the bipolar tango for the next two weeks.

 

I'm happy for the joy of others, is it too much to ask for a little joy for myself?


3/15/2012 3:24:59 PM

change of plans. Going to sleep, not Munch


3/11/2012 8:20:04 AM

Happy Birthday Donna, we still miss you.


1/23/2012 7:35:56 AM
Burned again. Hermit needs asbestos heart, badly.

1/22/2012 3:38:57 PM

Why is it few people are polite?  And why is it fewer expect manners?


1/17/2012 4:09:25 PM

I love animals, some are cute others are delicious, what's not to like? - overheard on Jeopardy.


1/5/2012 6:28:43 PM

Fight for those worth fighting for.  And never be an option, be a priority.


1/4/2012 8:21:58 AM
I do not like the cone of shame.

12/24/2011 7:02:16 AM

To my Christian friends, Merry Christmas.

 To my Jewish friends Happy Hanukkah.

 To my Pagan friends Joyous Yule.

 To my Athiest friends... Good Luck. 


12/9/2011 6:07:48 PM

Tell me why I'm nervous
Please explain to me
Why I can't sleep
Please explain to me
Why you're always out of reach
If the water ran dry
Would I see it in your eye
Would you walk away


12/4/2011 3:30:49 PM

They say Marriage is the trumph of hope over experience.  While I've no intentions for that.  I'm definately dipping my toes into hope.  Let there be no piranah'


12/3/2011 7:36:24 PM

Rant time...

 

Things that bug me in profiles.  "I'm collared (better still recently collared) and looking for a sub sis for my Master."  Call me a little old fashioned ("A little?" cries the peanut gallery) but I kind of think that you have to be very comfortable in your twosome before you can look for a threesome.  Coming from a guy (last time I checked, the ex didn't get those in the divorce) it seems to me that most guys are looking for a new model when they're wanting another girl.

 

Now don't get me wrong, I know a few poly relationships that work out, and appriciate the respect for diversity.  Just always gets my spider senses tingling.

 

End rant.  Please send all flames to admin@whitehouse.gov

 :-)


11/19/2011 6:41:33 AM

Well my plans went south, but I didn't :-(  Happy frakking birthday to me.  Anyone want me to unwrap them?


11/17/2011 1:37:14 PM

Heading down to KY tomorrow.  Wish me luck.


10/9/2011 1:20:02 PM

<gauntlet voice>Hermit needs alcohol, badly.</gauntlet voice>  {#}


9/30/2011 2:45:26 PM

Well, looks like I'm not looking for long term for now, friends only.  I can't support a house on my own right now, so I can't offer a home to share.

 

Still looking for friends, and I am always up for a lunch.


9/11/2011 5:51:19 AM
Never forget.

8/23/2011 4:00:45 PM

So where was everyone for the great quake of 2011?


8/21/2011 5:24:08 PM

Arrgh, talked shop today, now wishing I had someone at hand to put theory to practice.


7/11/2011 1:32:20 PM

It's always a pleasant surprise when you meet a woman from online face to face... and they're actually a woman.


6/1/2011 5:13:13 PM

Hard to believe it's June already...  Where's the gorram year going?


4/24/2011 5:57:59 PM

Put this in your journal if you or someone you know suffers from Vanilla boy or girlfriend syndrome.  This condition afflicts thousands of kinky people yearly, destroying perfectly kinky people and forcing them into vanilla roles.


4/9/2011 10:54:25 AM

It's been a year.  Pain is less, but it's still there.

 

Why is it you don't realize the value of someone until they're gone?


3/22/2011 11:20:52 AM

With apologies to the Marx Brothers...

 

"Ohhhhhhhh

Oh Libya, Oh Libya, oh why are we in Libya

Libya, the backwater nation?"


3/7/2011 12:33:04 PM

Ugh, just had a Wisdom Tooth pulled.  pain meds are keeping the pain on edge, but gods I hate this.

 

I lose one more tooth, and I will be forced to emigrate to West Virginia.


2/17/2011 12:17:14 PM
Is it March yet?

2/15/2011 9:31:24 AM
Bumper stickers that need to be made. "Nikolai Tesla built my copilot. "

2/14/2011 10:31:08 AM
For those of you who have someone, enjoy today. For the rest of us... the day's half over.

1/31/2011 8:59:10 AM

Ok, it's official... Flu sucks.


1/17/2011 2:52:12 PM

Just got a nice rejection letter.  While I'm used to rejection, it's nice to have someone take the time to reply "No thank you."  Manners are a lost art.


12/14/2010 1:53:08 PM
Anyone want to be a laundry slave? *laugh*

11/27/2010 4:59:22 PM

if I must be lonely, I think I'd rather be alone.


10/10/2010 5:17:05 PM
6 months ago, I lost my partner. To butcher Excalibur, "I never knew how full my soul, until it was emptied." It still hurts, but I live, I grow stronger, and I fight another day. At times I like to listen to this song


9/28/2010 10:46:13 AM
Ok, timing is annoying. One person who was interested in meeting me isn't replying. One I was scheduled to meet has disappeared, and one I was trying to meet with closed her account. Other than that, the FL vacation is great!

9/25/2010 5:42:02 PM
Almost in Bradenton. Whoo hoo!

9/2/2010 4:58:00 PM
Are you ready for some football?

8/28/2010 6:39:57 PM
Bored now, and summer colds suck.

8/8/2010 9:52:11 AM
Ah just got some good news on the medical front, we'll see what happens.

7/28/2010 5:44:21 PM
Oh Lord, forgive my sins, but my pain is lessened in the torment of those who hurt me.

7/16/2010 2:19:56 AM
Or not...

6/28/2010 8:19:00 AM
I can haz relationship. Please G_d, don't let me screw this up. Still looking to collect and make friends though.

6/23/2010 2:37:29 PM
Aum bhoor bhuwah swaha Tat savitur varenyam Bhargo devasaya dheemahi Dhiyo yo naha prachodayat

6/21/2010 5:28:31 PM
Because days! Come and go! But my feelings for you are forever Because days come and go But my feelings for you are forever One last kiss... Before I go... Dry your tears... It is time to let you go...

6/17/2010 8:32:12 AM
Outliving those you hate is the best revenge.

6/4/2010 3:23:22 PM
Sink the Rachel Corrie!

5/3/2010 8:42:44 AM
Last chance...

4/23/2010 6:05:46 AM
"Yes, I've read a poem. Try not to faint."

4/23/2010 5:52:24 AM
From my favourite poem: This Hermit good lives in that wood Which slopes down to the sea. How loudly his sweet voice he rears! He loves to talk with marineres That come from a far countree.

4/20/2010 12:58:16 PM
Well now comes the fun part of moving and getting used to the new normal.

4/10/2010 2:34:07 PM
Those of you who know donna (dona on collarme) we lost her to a stroke.

Rest in peace love.

3/28/2010 4:34:09 PM
I lose two more teeth, I can emigrate to West Virginia.

3/18/2010 6:59:42 PM
Frustrating is when you've opened up to someone, and they hurt you... Part of you still cares about them.

3/12/2010 5:01:41 PM
Problem when you keep your personal and professional lives seperate.  When someone calls you a 'sadist' you can't tell them you take it as a compliment.

3/7/2010 6:25:47 PM
My brain haz asploded.

3/5/2010 4:30:52 PM
Any one ever notice how much the fake profiles read like Bizzaro?

"Me am mary sue, me am not troll, me am looking for real honest man to share me..."

2/10/2010 2:02:25 PM
Rest in peace, Captain Harris.

May your seas be calm and your pots be full in the next life.

2/8/2010 6:20:48 PM
Talked to a new face on here.  Looks to be a real woman, she wasn't interested in me, but had the courtesy to reply and let me know.  Nice to see that manners aren't completely dead.  Wished her well and good luck.

1/22/2010 7:02:28 PM
Made it under the deadline, now to wait...

I hate waiting...

1/21/2010 6:00:21 PM
Deadlines suck

1/3/2010 6:04:43 PM
She's just not that into you...

Frustrating it is when you talk with someone briefly, but they then stop talking with out an explination.  Especially when you want to know more about them...

1/1/2010 7:26:56 PM
Happy New Year from the Hermitage.

12/30/2009 6:30:40 PM
Remember for 2010...

ALL THESE WORLDS ARE YOURS EXCEPT EUROPA
ATTEMPT NO LANDING THERE
USE THEM TOGETHER
USE THEM IN PEACE

12/25/2009 8:55:11 AM
Merry Christmas from the Hermitage!

12/22/2009 1:44:11 PM
Hmmph,

I must be an ogre. 

Woman looks at my profile, then deletes her account.  Score one for the Hermit scaring someone vanilla!

12/21/2009 5:34:06 PM
To my Christian friends, Merry Christmas.
To my Jewish friends, Happy Chanukka.
To my Wiccan friends, Merry Yule.
To everyone else... Good luck!

11/12/2009 12:49:00 PM
Updated my age, close enough to my birthday for government work.

11/5/2009 2:39:04 PM
Pray for our men and women in Uniform both abroad and at Fort Hood.

9/12/2009 4:36:12 PM
Problem with being a Hermit.  Couldn't make it to the 9/12 project today.

8/25/2009 5:00:24 PM
Well others have commented I look like I've lost weight.  So that's something.

8/11/2009 5:44:55 PM
Ok, someone has a sick sense of humour.

Been two weeks w/o soda.  Go to the vending machine and get some milk.  So then I get it out of the machine, and there's a can of coke sitting there too, mocking me.

No, I didn't take it.  I do have some willpower.

8/9/2009 7:08:08 AM
This week's plan.

Move the mini-fridge down to the basement.  Hide the chocolate milk there.  ;-)

8/8/2009 7:44:26 PM
The trolls are evolving.  Is this Darwin on the internet?

8/7/2009 4:14:06 PM

Is a collard slave green and tasty?


8/7/2009 6:50:06 AM
Why is it what you want is impossible to find?

7/21/2009 4:35:24 PM
Bad news,

Cellulitus sucks.

Good news,

I'll not be needing to change my nickname to 'Stumpy_Dom' anytime soon.

7/10/2009 4:47:39 PM
Happy Birthday Nicolai Tesla!

If not for this great man, we'd not have the violet wand.

7/3/2009 12:54:07 PM

I was reminded again, why reason is superior to emotion.

If I'd listened to my loins and not my head, I'd be alone, as I'd have lost a friend to keep a girl who is, less than honourable, shall we say?

But instead I have my friend, my home and she's someone else's problem. :-)


6/23/2009 1:39:41 PM
Ok... Question time!

What is it with the 'I'm monitoring my slave's e-mail?'  I'll confess to being burned by certain green eyed people in trusting them, but if you can't trust a slave to not run off with another dom from an e-mail, do you really own them?

6/15/2009 6:28:58 PM
Weird tonight, an old friend resurfaced, and I've lost touch with a new one.  Not quite the balance I want.

6/13/2009 4:58:16 PM
Watching Torchwood.  Agatha Freeman tied to a table.  Yummy.

6/10/2009 5:49:21 PM
Mary Murphy: The reason ball gags were invented.

6/10/2009 1:22:56 PM
Is is possible to be 'too nice to be a Dom'?

6/5/2009 3:19:48 PM
Today's 'Watch the Hermit almost do something stupid moment'.  I was pasting some links into an e-mail for local BDSM organizations.  I almost pasted it into an IM window where I was talking to my mom.  D'oh!

4/27/2009 6:56:06 PM
*cough cough oink cough cough*

4/18/2009 2:13:29 PM
Just bought the replacement radio for the one the damned thieves stole on Monday.

Damend thieves, hate them almost as much as liars.

4/3/2009 1:43:26 PM
I'm back in reading glasses.  Whee...

3/2/2009 7:02:17 PM
To celebrate the Dow dropping below 7000, I'm thinking about adding a new photo to my profile.  Me holding a sign saying 'will Top for food.'

12/31/2008 3:34:20 PM
One day, I shall come back. Yes, I'll shall come back. Until then, there must be no regrets, no tears, no anxieties. Just go forward in all your beliefs, and prove to me that I am not mistaken in mine. -The Doctor

12/7/2008 1:02:46 PM
The plastic tips at the end of shoelaces are called aglets. Their true purpose is, sinister.

9/20/2008 9:24:23 AM
It is finished

9/10/2008 1:13:07 PM

Back in the Saddle again?


6/8/2008 1:20:11 PM
First night in the condo.  Sure it's on an air mattress, but I'm right.  There's a good aura about the place.

5/26/2008 9:46:37 AM
Happy memorial day to all those who have served and who love those who have.

it's been an educational weekend.  I'm not changing, and not leaving friends so no worries.  But I am consolidating, focusing on those two who are important, if not essential to me.  You know who you are.

5/20/2008 5:25:27 PM
Free at last,, free at last.
Thank the Lord and lady, I'm free at last.

Important notes.  Do not make Mark Dann jokes in the Franklin County Courthouse.

5/15/2008 3:54:06 PM
Still on schedule to take possesion Sunday. 

Anyone local interested in a Whitewolf or d20 game?  I'll have a basement.

5/2/2008 5:09:08 PM
Well it's official, I'm a home owner

4/9/2008 6:18:50 PM
Am I the only one out there who wants to beat the Orbitz girl?

3/27/2008 7:42:20 AM
Today's thought to ponder.  I'm secure enough in myself that I can appriciate an attractive man, and humble enough to be bemused if a man finds me attractive. (Still hetro, guys, so I don't swing both ways)

just wondering if the lesbians on the site (assuming they get a tactful comment andnot 'hey babe, you just need the right man...' ) feel the same way. or if anyome else does for that matter.

2/19/2008 6:25:26 PM
<-- Would you sell a used condo to this man?

2/3/2008 4:21:46 PM
I work with Philistines.  I've a plastic skull at work.  I named him Yorik.  Easily half my coworkers don't get it.  Of course if I called them Philistines I'd likely hear, "But I'm not from Philidelphia."

1/21/2008 11:53:05 AM
Amusing thing this morning,
Was out for breakfast with a close friend and coming back to the table, caught the eye of a littel girl, maybe four.  She looks up sees me and goes 'you're fat!"

Now for the most part I'm comfortable with my mass, so I wasn't really upset, but her mom was mortified.  "That was very mean, say something nice to the man."

I come over and look down at her.  "And do you know why I'm fat?  Because I eat rude little girls."

She looks at her mom and says, "He's gonna eat me!"

Well at least she now knows she's rude. :P

1/6/2008 5:15:13 PM
It's amazing how, even when you're fighting the cold from Hell, a fresh shave with a sharp blade cam make you feel better.

Well, unless your barber is Sweeny Todd...

1/3/2008 2:19:14 PM
Ok, not liking humanity much tonight. 

I'm driving home and see this car get stuck trying to turn 'round.  I pull over to apply my considerable mass to helping...

And can't get out of the truck because traffic keeps zooming by!  Doesn't anyone help strangers anymore?

12/19/2007 6:08:09 PM
Anyone else notice that Kari on Mythbusters is a definate sadist?

10/3/2007 6:50:51 PM
Funny thing I've found.

If you don't use periods, question marks, or commas, don't be surprised when you get misunderstood. 

This isn't text messaging, people.

5/29/2007 7:01:05 PM
i'm going to the Special Hell...

Was on my way home sunday, stopped to get gas.  I met a young woman, attractive, asian, nice body, intelligent, cheerful, and did I mention attractive?

Of course there was that habbit thing...

Lusting after a nun.  I'm going to the special Hell. 

3/8/2007 5:59:26 PM
Being honourable is hard.  Cruelty has a place and purpose, but casual cruelty isn't part of me.

Antidepressants deaden everything.  So if I'm feeling a cold simmering anger now, what would it be unmedicated?

3/4/2007 12:29:20 PM
Found something funny today.

Friend of mine bought me the playboy with Tricia Helfer in it.  Now I do enjoy seeing her on the small screen, and it was nice to see her naked (and apparently real) body, but I realized something.

I've found that after being at parties and seeing real women, and having been lucky enough to play with a few myself, that the airbrushed, made up, photoshopped beauties of playboy don't do anything for me anymore.  It's too much looking like manikins.

So am I a freak or what?

2/18/2007 1:45:52 PM
Just saw Ghost Rider today.  Definately worth seeing.  I don't understand why Eva Longoria is considered so hot though...

1/23/2006 5:25:08 PM
"When you can't run, you crawl, and when you can't crawl, you find someone to carry you." -firefly

Well I want to thank all my friends who have carried me in the bad times.

12/25/2005 7:35:01 AM
Hope this doesn't get edited...

To My Christian Friends, Merry Christmas

To my Jewish Friends Happy Chaunaka

To my Athiest Friends...  Good Luck

:-)

9/28/2005 11:25:40 AM
Home, home again,

I like to be here when I can...

Just had to head out west for my uncle's funeral.  And am heading to the Tampa, FL area for a week to be with my father.  He's recovering from a stroke.  Because of all this, my replies may be slow. 

2/28/2005 8:09:41 PM
OK, new experiment at the Hermitage.  I'm looking to find the responce to the idea of a 18-35 group here in central Ohio.  Anyone who wants to see where it's going, let me know.

12/22/2004 3:58:44 PM
Welcome Back, CollarMe.com!  We've missed you.  While I don't know what happened, thanks to the hard work of every getting it back online.  Met a couple new people during the 'great trollchat of 2004' SO I'll say hi to them too :-)

11/28/2004 3:46:35 PM
Just got back from a wonderful weekend at a bed and breakfast in MI.  (To moderators, don't know if I can put the name here) Kind of a surreal experience to be carrying a bare bottomed slave on your shoulder, hanging tinsel. (Well it's surreal when it's someone else's slave)

7/4/2004 8:31:08 AM
Things I don't understand...

Why would someone post a profile saying 'I'd like to meet people in the area' and when they're sent a message inviting them to munches, they don't reply.  *shrug*

6/18/2004 3:31:39 PM

Well, I've made a couple friends , met a few players and fakes , and likely came across as an troll to a few others.    To those I've befriended, thank you, to those I've offended, I'm not as obnoxious as I first seem at times ;-)


4/12/2004 4:10:12 PM

Well, I've been Lurking Here A while and have met a few people, seen a few people and hope to meet more. 


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