9/15/2012 9:29:56 AM: Maybe it is just me, but does anyone ever read profiles anymore? I can understand making aspanp judgement over a picture, but at least have the decency to read a profile and understand what the person is looking for. We all have our kinks, I mean that is why we are here, but we are also all trying to learn more about ourselves and where our limits are going to take us. It could be that someone has an idea or methodology that has not appeared to us. While I am who I am, I am also to learning more about people in all of their complexities. If our little corner of the world cannot compare notes for the better, why are we contributing to forums and the like? Oh, and for the individual's who read this far, thank you. For the people who think being rude for the sake of being rude, well, your loss. We will continue on a better journey without you.

9/13/2012 11:36:20 AM: There are people who don't understand that a spam filter can be activated by a number of reasons, primarily, a certain amount of emails sent in a particular amount of time. It will happen when there is a lengthy conversation via this site. Get to the end and send another, the filter gets activated. Maybe there are too many fakes or posers here and people get frustrated about it. That I can understand. But to be rude for no other reason than to flex your muscles behind a keyboard is just foolish.