I believe D/s can evolve into M/s and is, in the truest sense, the natural state and ideal relationship between a Man and a woman... for me it's not a kink or fetish... it's just life.
I like to think I know what I need and desire in my life, and who and what I am as a woman. I don't judge others choices, but I do have opinions and will share when asked, and I always listen to others input and ideas because I am very open minded and enjoy others views.. I believe we all have our reasons for being what we are...I do however believe that for myself being a submissive isn't a choice... it is just who I am and how I am wired. To me it's not a gift it is just a fact.
I enjoy strong Men... that are confident and respectful, who know who they are... who are also understanding in a teaching sort of way as I know I still have much to learn and personal growth is always important. I do seek a Dom who is straight and not a switch...I feel jealousy among subs/slaves/friends etc is pretty much a zero tolerance for me... I am far from perfect but I do communicate and am always honest in what I think or feel... respectfully explained.
I have worn steel around my neck and been happily owned unfortunately that is no longer the case and after some time working on myself... again seek the freedom of His collar.
I am not here seeking a play partner, married men, or to join a poly household at this time. I do believe there are strengths in a poly home just not a place I see myself today (I still need some growth)
I am also not a Goddess, Mistress, Domme etc... and not here to aid in the fetishes of males claiming to be " sub/slaves"
This to me is unnatural and has no interest to me what so ever... the mere thought of a Man in that role... well it's not for me personally.
Favorite Quote
~Treat her as your own flesh, command her as her lord, cherish her as your helper, rule her as your pupil, please her in all things reasonable, but teach her not to be curious in things that belong not to her. You are the head, she is your body, it is your office to command and hers to obey, but yet with such a sweet harmony as she should be as ready to obey as you to command, as willing to follow as you to go before, your love being wholly knit unto her, and all her affections lovingly bent to follow your will.~
King James of Edinburgh