I'm very lucky to have found my match. We both switch, although he is more dominant and I am more submissive about 90 percent of the time. I have trouble controlling myself and love that feeling of spinning....giving in and letting go. I often joke that I need a babysitter. I like to be a hot mess.
I am looking for friends and mentors. If anything else happens it happens.
One of my biggest fantasies is watching my husband with another woman,or even hearing about it. Unlikely since he's super picky and very monogamous, but it gets me off every time. I'd watch him with another man too, if he went that way :) I'm definitely poly by nature but I TRY to behave for him.
My biggest turn on is men getting off. Hard. Dripping. Aching. Desperately wanting.
I am a hedonist. A sensualist. I love to please more than anything.