I am intelligent, laid back and have a good sense of humor. I try not to stress too much and just want to be happy. For me that means a job that I enjoy, enough money so that I don't have to worry and a women that makes me happy. I have the first two.
I am a nerd at times so you have to at least put up with my occasional video game binges and be willing to go to comic con with me :) I do tend to like intelligent and well educated girls more. The ditzy, bimbo thing is a huge turn off for me.
I am looking to meet someone with similar interests for a relationship. I know what I want both in and out of the bedroom and I am hoping to find the right person that gets me, and can give me what I want. That being said I think that compatibility on multiple levels is important. Personality is more important than anything. Confidence and a sense of humor go a long way. Chances are we will have some sexual interests in common but I am looking for something with long term potential and you spend a lot more time together outside of the bedroom.
As a dominant, I like to be in control, regardless of the situation. However, I don't want somebody that is totally dependent on me to function. My ideal sub is independent and has her life together, but willing submits to me.
I have a decent amount of experience in BDSM and have been in enough relationships to know what I want. I consider myself a Daddy dom because that is the dynamic that works best for me. For the most part I am kind a lighthearted and will only be strict when needed. I am looking for the girl that likes to be naughty in the bedroom and wants discipline and security outside of it.
I think the internet is great for meeting people but I would much prefer a cup of coffee or tea. You can learn so much more about someone in person.
If there is anything else you want to know, just ask. I don't post a photo because of my job but I will share one once we get to know each other.