Non traditional object here- I will admit I'm looking for what I'm looking for, and having any input doesn't necessarily make me a slave in some people's view but that just means I'm not your kind of object. If I trust you, the mind turns off and the senses turn on and I'm yours to use and train for very hot, dark, intense kinks and fetishes. Currently mostly interested in part time- this doesn't make me a sub, because a sub is a just a kinkster who likes to follow direction or be dominated in certain respects and under certain conditions. I want to have no input and be totally yours for several hours or a day or more at a time = part time slave. What I'm not into: beatings, permanent marks, visible marks (neck, face, arms), shaving, kids, scat, severe pain. What I am into: gags and blindfolds, toys, being bound gagged and fucked, sucking, rimming, human urinal, spanking and hair pulling, light choking, being shared and group scenes of any description, furniture, humiliation and degradation, collar and leash at bdsm and sex clubs or private parties is fine, blindfolded and gangbanged also fine. Whatever you want = fine IF you tell me what you want AND I say or write yes in advance. Don't tell me you want to have me suck you and your friends blindfolded, and once I'm there tell me what you really want is to brand me. Perhaps I'm demanding, but if its all negotiated beforehand, I actually like being silent, compliant, nasty, and used hard. I'm still new at this- I'm in SF some weekends and a weeknight or two per month. One time can be hot, would prefer ongoing.