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| ozrubbergimp
| Pan Male Submissive, 55, Canberra, Australia
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it is starting its journey, and has not tried living as a gimp in real time in a face to face session weekend week month (you get the idea) so is not available for immediate relocation, but relocation is definitely an option. it will work for you and your household and pay its own way.
its aim is to try out and test itself and to see if it does want to be a gimp, and then if it does, to be ready to relocate. Any real time, face to face, Australian help to move it forward would be great!
it is looking to become a rubber gimp to provide protected and safe sexual service to You while in layers of full enclosure rubber, gagged, blindfolded, leashed, cuffed, plugged and entubed also some or all of the following bondage, behaviour control, rubber doll, cart dressage pony play, being controlled, doing housework.
it wants to be a rubber gimp to make Your life easier. it will work in Your home or outside it while in rubber. Having hard and soft limits, and using safewords is non-negotiable for it. it is not no-limits rubber. its hard limits are no unprotected sex (oral and anal), must use safe words, before playing the first time Wwe chat online, then by phoneskype, then have 2 vanilla dates so Wwe can get to know one another before playing. This greatly limits its ability to safely relocate or even safely play with overseas Dominants.
*Personal info*
i am a person who
- Is intelligent, caring, kind and enjoys conversation.
- Is patient and wants to get to know people well online (chatting, camming) before meeting in person for vanilla dates to talk about our common interests before playing the first time. This greatly limits its ability to safely relocate or even safely play with overseas Dommes. Sure my way is a slow way, but i want to find people who could travel together with me a long way on a common journey, and so patience and a slow pace is a virtue. im happy to talk through what im looking for and work through any questions that people might have.
- Prefers to meet single people, but am open to people in all types of relationship. If you already in a relationship - well i dont want to be your rubber affair, and have to compete with your spouse or partner, even if you think cam sex doesnt count as real sex. Call me old fashioned if that helps you to understand it. More than happy to play with people if their partner is OK with that.
- is physically 198cm (or 6 feet 6 inches) tall, of average to slim build (i.e. have middle age spread and am doing something about it) and weigh between 125 kilos (ditto). ive got brown hair and blue eyes and little body hair.
- Besides wearing rubber, i am an indoors introvert type of person. i enjoy quiet nights in and not nightclubbing or parties. i enjoy reading and discussing science fiction, history, politics, astrology (ive got Venus in Aquarius), psychology (INFP here), supporting green politics and causes, such as preventing man-made climate change, promoting respect for all religions, supporting the rights of minorities, and living in a world of limits, such as peak oil. i really enjoy playing board wargames published by GMT, VPG, DG, ST, AH. i recognise that a lot of this life is helping me to resist being a gimp, and i battle daily to give this life up and to be ready to be gimp. it is going to take some time to simplify its life, which is why I state that Im aiming to be able to relocate in 3 years.
*Kink info*
its needs are not overly important in the relationship, but ideally it is looking to become Your rubber gimp to provide You with protected and safe sexual service while in layers of full enclosure rubber, gagged, blindfolded, leashed, cuffed, plugged and entubed and also some or all of the following bondage, behaviour control, rubber doll, pony play, being controlled, and doing Your housework. However, this is the real world, so the chances of finding all this in one person is remote, but it is still hoping.
it would only do agree that You do to it what Wweve negotiated to do, and it would always have a safeword or equivalent. Wwed only play after Wwe met for a meal together to check one another out, as it doesnt believe in rushing things. Feel free to ask it any questions Yyou like.
it is looking for Dominants located in Australia, New Zealand, Europe and North America that it might visit or relocate to live with, but safely building up trust with overseas people will be harder.
it is a sub who
- is looking for a Dominant to make their life easier and more pleasurable, by earning its way either in the Your home or outside it.
- will pay its own way by earning an income either through home-based or online work, or leaves Your home each day, but comes home in time for evening duties.
- has the attitude that bondage is about training and getting used to wearing rubber gear on a longterm basis, and is seeking to serve you by being forced into and kept in rubber gear, and learning to safely overcome the challenges that come with that. However more importantly, the full rubber gear is a means to an end where it can much better service their Dominant.
- has its own black latex rubber catsuits, hoods, gloves, gasmasks, gags.
it believes in this statement of rights for subs
1. Every sub has the right to have their body, intellect, and emotions protected by his Dom.
2. Every sub has the right to choose the man whom they serve and to discontinue that service and take their leave without being subjected to physical, mental, or emotional abuse.
3. Every sub has the right to be cared for, disciplined appropriately, and allowed to feel pride in their submission.
4. Every sub has the right to protected sex if they so wish.
5. Every sub has the right to privacy if they so wish. No sub can be publicly humiliated, or physically coerced into service without their expressed desire to be so.
6. Every sub has the right to defend themselves from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.
7. Every sub has the right to consent or not to consent to sexual activities.
8. Every sub has the right to seek refuge, counsel, and advice from other subs and Doms without the expectation of sex, money, or any other service in return.
9. Every sub has the right to a physically and emotionally available circle of friends.
10. Every sub has the right to protect his own possessions and finances against intercession, theft, and non-consensual acquisition.
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OK, so here's the second installment of my new profile:
Still here? Still interested? Now on to the kink stuff...## ***Kink information***### **Things that i know about myself that i want more of in my life****my rubber self**I enjoy wearing layers of loose fitting full enclosure rubber, with a hood, gloves, gasmask, and socks. If you are dressed in any amount of rubber, that would be great. I'm happy to be with people wearing all kinds of clothing and gear, or nothing at all. I will be in full enclosure rubber myself.**My submissive self:**i am looking to become a rubber gimp or drone slave, i.e. used like a slave and stored like a gimp. i want to try out & test myself & to see if i do want to be a gimp slave in reality as compared to fantasy. i have lots of solo experience, but very little in-person real-life experience, so a lot of what i want to do is not informed my real-world experience.As your rubber gimp slave i want to to provide protected and safe sexual service to my dominant person while in layers of full enclosure rubber, gagged, blindfolded, leashed, cuffed, plugged and entubed & also some or all of the following: bondage, behaviour control, breath control, piss play, cart & dressage pony play, being controlled, financial domination & doing housework.my attitude is that bondage is about training and getting used to wearing rubber gear on a longterm basis, and so i am seeking to serve you by being forced into and kept in rubber gear, and learning to safely overcome the challenges that come with that. However more importantly, the full rubber gear is a means to an end where i can much better service You.i want to make Your life easier. i will pull my own weight by working in Your home or outside it while in rubber to earn income for the household. i am not no-limits rubber slave.---**As an equal:** I am into long sessions of mutual cuddling, kissing, body stroking in layers of heavy rubber. I am really interested to try living as rubber drones in a hive with contracts and rules that govern the behaviour of the hive and its members, such as these concepts and contracts by [Unit03](https://fetlife.com/users/8849164): - [The concept of a rubber hive: an introduction](https://fetlife.com/users/8849164/posts/6373426)- [Rubber Hive Contracts (or other kink between equals)](https://fetlife.com/users/8849164/posts/6412980)- [Model Short-Term Hive Contract](https://fetlife.com/users/8849164/posts/6413413)## **Limits**Explicit and enthusiastic consent is the sexiest thing. Don't fucking touch me without asking, even (especially!) if I'm in full rubber, naked or wearing something skimpy. Ask nicely and you might be surprised.My limits:- no blood- no needles- no intentionally broken skin- no scat- no vomit- no tickling- no rimming (giving)- no marks visible to the vanilla world- no permanent marks- no blows to the head- no sudden neck/head movements- no sudden loud noises- no oral, vaginal or anal sex without a condom.## **Safer sex**Asking for (or assuming!) unprotected sex when we are new or casual play partners is a red flag.### **Things that i don't know about myself, and i want to explore to see if i want more in my life**i knew from an early age that i was into rubber. However, there are some bdsm activities that aren't easily compatible with rubber, and so i have never explored them. In 2023, i am realising that i want to try these to see if i also like them, and that if i want to try them, that i have to take off my rubber skin (which is a bit scary). This is what i'd like to try:- sensation play- impact play (whips, floggers, paddles, spanking)- rope bondage- wax play- high protocol- oral and vaginal sex with people of all genders
So, here are my profile updates, which unfortunately I can't make to my profile itself. Let's see how much of this actually gets posted.
I am seeking only Dominant Men.
New profile:
**About me****TLDR version:** Male (he/him pronouns) Canberra-based ethical non-monogamist, rubberist slave (open to subbing and bottoming or even being equals) is looking for dominant men, for short term experiences, experiments, play sessions all the way to long term slave relationships. I am looking for local Australian people for a face to face relationship. I am not looking for an online relationship, but am open to relocating for the right man. I am very happy to satisfy your curiousity about latex rubber in a single session or something more long term. W/we may have already chatted/met/played over the past 15 years, as my previous profiles include ozrubbergimp, ozrubberpony and LearnerRubberDom. i was out of the local scene for a few years in the 2010s due to exploring long-distance relationships but I discovered that I need face to face relationships that are moving forward, not online fantasies which end up with long chats that don't go anywhere.**Personal information**I'm a person who:* likes using lists to organise information as my natural inclination is to start too many things at the same time and not finish most of them, which happens to me a lot as an [INFP](https://personalityjunkie.com/infp-personality-type-profile/) when my Extraverted Intuition is in charge :)* Is intelligent, caring, kind and enjoys conversation.* is physically 198cm (or 6'6') tall, of average build (i.e. have middle age spread and am doing something about it) and weigh 118 kilos (ditto). I have grey/brown head hair, blue eyes and little body hair (which may be hard to see under the rubber).* Besides wearing (breathing, smelling, tasting etc) rubber, I am an indoors introvert type of person. I enjoy quiet nights in and not nightclubbing or parties. I enjoy reading and discussing science fiction, history, politics, astrology, psychology, supporting green politics and causes, such as preventing man-made climate change, promoting respect for all religions, supporting the rights of minorities, and living in a world of limits, such as peak oil. My main hobby is playing board wargames published by GMT games, VPG games, DG, Strategy and Tactics, Avalon Hill (RIP).* Potential income-earning skills: besides those that i have gained as a policy wonk employed by the Australian federal public service for 25+ years (literature-based research and analysis; writing short, medium and long reports; managed four staff; project management; contract management) i also can do futures studies and foresight (help you and your organisation develop a vision for the future and implement it); high school science teaching; ecological field work; written communication: drafting, editing, proof-reading.---**How I want to meet and get to know people*** I am patient and want to get to know people well online (chatting, camming) before meeting in person for vanilla dates to talk about our common interests before playing the first time. Sure this way is a slow way, but I want to find people who could travel together with me a long way on a common journey, and so patience and a slow pace is a virtue. I am happy to talk through what I/i am looking for and work through any questions that people might have.* If you have no interest in me, please tell me. I have previously pissed people off by being persistent beyond reasonable requests to stop, so please tell me if you have no interest.* I believe that physical and emotional chemistry is vital between us, even for a play session. So meeting in person is important to establish this early in getting to know someone.* my philosophy is that there are two levels in any scene, relationship or 24/7 life: - at the base level, both parties (dominant and submissive) have the power to enter, continue or leave the scene, relationship or 24/7 life. Both parties have the power to propose, negotiate and consent to what might be included or excluded in it.- at the level of the power exchange, the submissive consents through negotiation to give the dominant a level of decision-making and control for the duration of the scene, relationship or 24/7 life.* my principle is that any participants in any scene, relationship or 24/7 life has a safeword or equivalent. W/we'd only play after W/we met for a meal or two together to check one another out and negotiate what we will do together, as I don't believe in rushing things. Feel free to ask me any questions Y/you like.* I prefer to meet single people, but I am open to playing and relating to people in all types of relationship. If you already in a relationship - well i don't want to be your 'rubber affair', and have to compete with your spouse or partner, even if you think cam sex doesn't count as real sex. i am more than happy to play with people if their partner(s) is OK with that. I am discovering that I am curious about in ethical non-monogamy relationships, as I am realising that in Canberra it is unlikely that I will be unable to meet my fetish and emotional needs in the same person.* I am looking for local Australian men, or international men. I am not looking for an online long distance relationship.* My current consent model is FRIES, which stands for Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic and Specific (hat-tip to mishmash). The one that really resonated with me was enthusiastic, not just from the other people I interact with, but for myself. If I find I am not enthusiastic about trying something, it has given me the permission to say no, instead of the mindset of how do you know if you don't try?? And yes, there is something in that, but you can be enthusiastically curious, or not curious at all, and that's ok! For example, it's highly likely that you know that you don't want to lick that shit, even though you've never tried it before, it's ok for you to never try it.* i believe and support and use the sub's / slave's bill of rights:1. Every sub has the right to have their body, intellect, and emotions protected by their Dom.2. Every sub has the right to choose the person whom they serve and to discontinue that service and take their leave without being subjected to physical, mental, or emotional abuse.3. Every sub has the right to be cared for, disciplined appropriately, and allowed to feel pride in their submission.4. Every sub has the right to protected sex if they so wish.5. Every sub has the right to privacy if they so wish. No sub can be blackmailed, publicly humiliated, or physically coerced into service without his expressed desire to be so.6. Every sub has the right to defend themselves from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.7. Every sub has the right to consent or not to consent to sexual activities.8. Every sub has the right to seek refuge, counsel, and advice from other subs and Dom/mes without the expectation of sex, money, or any other service in return.9. Every sub has the right to a physically and emotionally available circle of friends.10. Every sub has the right to protect his own possessions and finances against intercession, theft, and non-consensual acquisition.---Still here? Still interested? Now on to the kink stuff...## ***Kink information***### **Things that i know about myself that i
Just discovered two things: First that the website is back up and running, and Secnd, that I can't edit my profile, so I'll see if I can make updates to my profile using the Journal function.
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