It's been a while since I've been in a D/s relationship but feel that the time has come to see if there's anyone out there with whom I can click.

First off, I have been happily married for almost 20 years and have no desire to change that. I'm seeking a Dominant who is interested in a long-term relationship, and since we are active in the local BDSM community, someone who able to accompany me to scene parties and fetish events. I'm not seeking a boyfriend or a switch, or someone who is afraid to be seen with me because his wife/SO might find out. Local would be ideal, but I'd be willing to travel a short distance as long as you're willing to do the same.

I love corporal play, especially toys that are stingy, but it's the mental aspects that make everything work for me. Let's start a conversation and see if we can get something going.